I think the guys that are super judgy about fooling around tend to be religious folks or guys that are jealous. But try not to get a rep for doing it too quick, too publicly in a friend group with one of them if you like some of the other ones. That said, I don't mind waiting a few days to move from makeout to fooling around (1st to 2nd base) if you're treating me well and will cuddle. But if you made me wait more than like a few meet ups/dates to touch you I'd prob start to feel deflated like you're leading me on or don't like me much, at least in western dating culture. But if you explained how shy you are I'd prob be willing to be "exclusive but not public" until you were comfortable going there. Just talk and communicate with the guy. You're aloud to bargain a little and to figure out how much he really likes you before moving forward. It's between YOU two. My main long term and I went all the way 1st "session". But we cuddled a whole night. Woke up, went to her place. Hooked up. Had a terrible time. Both admitted we could do better. She shaved and did some maintenance. By the middle of the next day it was hot, and we were just about exclusive. I had lose ends to tie up.
I sincerely hope she was joking or this question is a joke. Not to be mean or anything, but the only way you'd want a relationship with a guy that'd only be in a relationship with you if he felt you up first is if you wanted a trashy guy only interested in your body.
Any respectable guy worth being in a relationship will want to be with you, because of your personality, how you make him feel, the times you spend together and things like that. I sincerely hope you find a guy worth having that doesn't "need" to feel you up before getting into a reltionship with you, and I hope you don't fall for someone that does, wanting to be loved and in a relationship can make you more suceptable to being a victim to a terrible relationship.
Best of luck to you, and hope this answer helps.
It helps thanks, it wasn't a joke she said if you want a boyfriend you have to put out and deal with stuff like if a guy wants to touch you let him touch you."
Well, the unrespectable guys that make girls cry and regret getting into a relationship with them and sometimes even cheat on them are the kind of guys who "need" to feel their girls up before being in a relationship with them. If you'd like some advice for getting into a healthy relationship let me know, I really hate to hear when girls have bad experiences with bad guys and end up hurt.
I need advice on getting a boyfriend.. I'm nice and guys tell me I'm hott and pretty and I just don't understand why I have never had a boyfriend
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Well, then yeah, guys are going to expect you to be sexual in a relationship. It doesn't mean you have to rush things though. Take that kind of stuff at your own pace.
I disagree, not all guys around my/her age are that way.
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