Losing your anal "virginity"

[Ms_December]

So about a week ago my boyfriend asked me if I was down to try some new positions/ new things and I happily agreed. Today during doggystyle, while I was blindfolded (kinky eh?) he asked me if I would mind if we tried anal sex. Now up until this point I was always curious but I had never had the courage to actually do it. First try he goes all the way in and is able to move a couple strokes. It kind of hurt but it wasn't awful. Anywho, I was just curious to know about anyone else's experience? Does it get better eventually? Girls do you usually orgasm? Guys- how is it for you? - Thanks!

[normalice]

for me, a girl asking for anal sex is as though she wants my **** so badly she wants it anywhere I'm willing to put it and she will get off on it all the same. The physical sensation is really not all that different than oral sex (except I can thrust without choking her), but there is also the added pleasure of having a sexy butt in front of me. Every girl I have had anal with eventually orgasmed from it - though one not the first time (but then I was her first time having anal, so that's to be expected).

It does get better with practice. You generally don't want to thrust it in suddenly, though. You need to give your butt some time to relax. it's a very unique muscle in that if you expect pain you are going to tighten up, and trying to thrust into a tightly clinched butt is going to hurt you (not me! but you). If you push out (attempt to fart or something) you'll not only relax that muscle but you'll also open it up, reducing the impact of stretching due to the penis: and with lube it should go very smoothly.

[Bvroon]

I prefer vaginal sex to anal sex, I don't like the idea that my partner is uncomfortable. I have tried it a few times and wasn't all that impressed, yes it was tighter, but sometimes this isn't always a good thing, additionally while it's advised to use lube, and I did the anus doesn't self lubricate so the lube tends to go a way after a while which in turn increases the friction. The vagina on the on the other hand if you are attentive to your partner will self lubricate which is awesome. I suppose if my partner was really into anal sex I would learn how to better please her and use lots of lube.

[Britneyr]

my first time was awkward and painful. He just sort of went for it and fortunately it was over pretty quick. It made me not want to try it again. Luckly a year or two later I met a guy who I was crazy about and we decided to give it another shot.

At first it hurt a bit, nothing bad but was kinda uncomfortable. Within a few min everything started to go sort of numb. From there it evolved to this tingleing pressure. IT WAS AMAZING! It gave me the most intense, full body orgasm I had experienced up until this time.

Since then I have been pretty hooked. I don't always orgasm from it but I do enjoy it so long as my guy is gentle.

[noidfome]

I love love love it. It feels good :) I don't usually orgasm, but that's because I never have. The pain definitely goes away. Hm...whered that boy go...see ya later! :) haha.

sorry to let you know, but it's totally addictive.

[dirtydee]

all this from a 17 year old

[noidfome]

i live doing what makes me happy. as long as its safe. don't judge me, because I'm smiling.

[cheergurl18]

MMMMMMM E tOO

[Redneck16]

I've nevr been with a woman that let me try it

[andrea_9]

I love it, but for me it is wasn't something I got to master very quickly. It took me about a year in fact, using dildo's on my own, learning to realx, healing some small tearing... but once I learned I couldn't stop !

[LuvJamesDeen]

Did he use lube before he entered you. Nothing is more important during anal sex than lube. And many women not only enjoy anal sex, but like it more than vaginal. Everyone is different though.

[GingerGuy]

Make sure he uses lots of lube and enters you slowly (for the pain issue). Make sure you're really turned on and relaxed also.

I've never done it so can't comment on how it feels but it's also something I have no interest in.

[sikoo31]

from what I've heard, it can take getting used to.

some girls love it the first time, just like regular sex.

but most feel some pain at first.

[Dragan]

There is better place for penis. I did not try anal sex. The vagina is the right place for my penis.

[dolfan13]

I prefer vagina or anal. However I have tried anal a few times and its initially tighter so that's the best benefit. My girl didn't really like it so we just dropped it.

[Redneck16]

I've never had the luxery of trying wish i could

[Anonymous]

Yeh I like it too, a vibe on my clit when he is in me and I goof like nothing else. After you master anal get a strapon and see if he can take it too. My husband can have multiple orgasms when I'm fucking his ass

[Anonymous]

I want to try it but I'm just nervous about the poop factor.

[noidfome]

try cleaning yourself out (enema(

[Opinion Owner]

I've heard horror stories.. like poop oozing out afterward. Can even that be avoided with an enema?

[Claireluvskaren]

Yes, get an enema before you start, I learned the hard way my first time, but I love it, relax and use lube and you too will love it. Good luck.

[Opinion Owner]

What happened to you the first time?

[Ms_December]

I didn't have an enema and I was totally fine. I didn't even have any poop come out and I hadn't gone since the previous day. I wouldn't freak out. I was nervous about it too, but it was fine.

[Anonymous]

My girl wanted to try it. The first few times she got some pleasure, but it also hurt. After awhile she started loving it, now we do it almost every time we have sex. I enjoy it cause I can finish inside her and not have to worry about anything. We both enjoy it dripping out, visual for me feeling for her

[Opinion Owner]

everyone is different though

[Anonymous]

It made it so that I wanted to f*** him in the ass to say thank you