LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY? TIPS? PUBIC HAIR?

As a girl who is a virgin hoping to one day lose it to a man I like who's most likely had at least 2 sexual partners before me, and is 25, what do you think about pubic hair? Is it gross? I keep it kept but actually hate shaving the actual vagina part itself because it's very uncomfortable, but I don't want to gross my first partner out. Any ideas on what he would think, and any other tips?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Well I guess the first question is what is the fashion on pubes where you live and/or your culture. It does vary a lot. Then it is absolutely your choice for your look. I don't think it is a big issue for most boys if at least you are neatly trimmed and not a earth-mother/cave-woman. I am sure he will delighted to be able to explore you whatever you choose.

    Tell us what you decide and how it goes...

    • Hmm... I live in the US, where I'm pretty sure shaving is standard. But I really like the idea of just neatly trimmed, not fully either way. Thanks :)

    • Cool, so I think it should be a neat trim then. If there is time left try snd trim a few days before. That way it gives time for the sharpness of the end of the cut hairs to soften a bit so that it will feel softer on your boyfriend face. When is the day for exploration?

    • It might be interesting to take a before and after trim selfie as well. Then you can see what he is going to see. Trim a little at a time until you achieve the look you find best for you.

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  • Honey go ahead and shave it. You don't have to shave; you could get a wax or get hair removal cream. You would want to look great for him, especially if he's your first. Then he might be the totally opposite. He might not mind if you didn't shave; just ask him what he likes.

    • It's probably safest to shave it for my first time, probably. Better than risking him being turned off by it.

  • Shaved clean is best, but if you can't handle that then at the very least trim the jungle way down so that it's not a jungle anymore. :)

    • Good idea. That makes sense. How do you do it so it's not so uncomfortable?

    • Once a week he shaves me and I shave him. We use Noxema brand bikini shavers and unscented shave cream. These are special shavers for shaving the pubic area. They have little plastic fingers that prevent the blade from contacting the skin. You get a very close shave with no bumps or ingrown hairs. It cuts the hair off at the base. I clean the shaver off after each stroke by wiggling it in a cup of water. When you do your first shave you may need to use two shavers but once you're doing it every week it only takes one. When you do it every week it becomes very quick, easy and comfortable. Note, allow a full day before having sex for any slight residual shaving irritation to go away.

    • Thank you so much! That's really helpful!

Most Helpful Guys

  • If a guy really loves you then he wouldn't care how you groomed yourself.
    Me personally I actually like female pubic hair because its the natural beauty and its sexy, a turn on and a sign of maturity as well. I do however respect a woman's decision on how she grooms herself because its her body and her choice.

    • That's actually a very interesting perspective :) Thank you for your help!

    • You're more than wecome

  • To me, shaved/waxed looks over-sexualized... even slutty. Just keep it trimmed and edged for the beach. This way, you will look modest, mature and feminine. Unless you have been preparing (fingers and toys) you may have some "first time" discomfort. Use plenty of lube and dont trust nature.

    • Interesting. I haven't been preparing. But do many guys feel that way about shaved?

    • I am probably in the minority for 20s but not alone. And older guys will increasingly agree.

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  • You should ask him but if he likes he shouldn't careb

    • I feel like it's a little weird to ask at this point, but I think I may just keep it trimmed for now and we'll see later

  • If you want him to go down on you, and you DO want to. I suggest you shave your labias. It will be better for both of you.

    • Thank you :)

    • My pleasure lady! 😊

  • Don't be ashamed of your pubs !
    There are guys who love them !

  • some man like pubic hair the way it iz. others want it to clean. it depends upon him.

    • Interesting. Perhaps just keep it trimmed for now?

  • If he loves you for who you are then he shouldn't care about pubic hair.

    • Thank you <3

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