Lost my virginity at 18 years old. You?

Question

Do you guys think I was too young,too old, or a fine age to lose it.What age did you guys lost it.?Lost it to a boyfriend/girlfriend ,friend, hook up. a guy/girl you were dating?Also how did you feel after. Good,sad, regretted it ?

RebeccaSJ · Accepted Answer

I was 25 and I lost it to my then-boyfriend. We went to his house and he seduced me as a special birthday present. At first, I was reluctant. I didn't want to do it, especially since I was raised to save myself for marriage, but he was very lovingly, softly persistent and I must admit that I had thought about it. Eventually, he wore me down. I started to say no and it came out OK. It was a fabulous first experience, about as good as a girl's first time can be.

Afterwards, I felt a mix of emotions: sadness, exhilaration, excitement, disappointment, deep romance, nervousness, peace, regret, but also happiness, many other emotions. It was all something of a jumble. But overall, the feeling must have been positive because we did it again.

samhradh_ean · Accepted Answer

I believe 18 is a perfectly acceptable age to lose your virginity, as long as you feel ready and are in the right situation. It's young, but at 18 you are a legal adult and probably capable enough of making smart decisions. Someone could lose their virginity at 18 and regret their choice, but regret can happen at any age- no one is exempt from the possibility of making mistakes. I lost my virginity at 19. I don't regret it, but I definitely feel like I gave something up in order to get what I have now. So there is a sad aspect to it for me, I won't deny it. But I have a great relationship with my boyfriend and I love having sex with him. I wouldn't go back. We all have to grow up eventually.

heatherlu · Accepted Answer

I was 17 nearly 18. I lost it to one of my oldest friends - I suppose kind of a hook up - but he's a guy who I'd never you know, look back on it badly about because we'd known each other so well for so long. I wanted it to be with someone I'd never look back and regret it with - and with him, I can't see myself ever doing that.

katylaura · Accepted Answer

17, with a childhood friend who I was dating at the time. I don't regret it, no. I've got friends who can't remember the girls name or where it was, and that's probably something they'll regret when they're older.

eyesforyou2 · Accepted Answer

17, 18 seems to be the general age these days for many to have lost it.

Lett0385 · Answer

i was 17

scorpio_tlilly · Answer

I lost mine at eighteen as well. (I am still eighteen.) I am glad I waited for as long as I did, and I would not change it for anything in the world.

RubyRedRox · Answer

18 and still a virgin. But yeah 18 is not a bad time to lose it as long as it meant something to you :)

babessara · Answer

16 to a boyfriend. I felt good after, I really liked him, I don't regret it at all :)

taster · Answer

18 is a good age...I was 19..she wasn't really a girlfriend yet but she became that way..I was really glad to get that out of the way!

zolly9999 · Answer

I was 14 and don't regret it for a moment. :)

RebeccaSJ · Answer

I was 25.  My boyfriend seduced me as a special birthday present.

JennieF · Answer

I was 17.

Anonymous · Answer

i was 16, with my boyfriend

Anonymous · Answer

17, with a guy I was seeing for 4 months and we carried on seeing each other for another 4 months, so 8 months all together. We didn't want to get into a relationship because he was expecting a baby with his previous relationship..after his little girl was born we both agree'd it would be better if we just ended it. I didn't feel sad and I didn't regret it.