Lost virginity doggy style and it hurts badly?!?

[Anonymous]

so yesterday night,my boyfriend and I had sex.I WAS at that point a virgin but he wasn't so I just basically,went along with it.We talked about it a little beforehand,but not much detail.Just birth control,position,etc. He was set on doing it doggy style,I guess cause it is his first time having sex since we've been together,which is 6 months,and he said it would feel better.I wanted to do it missionary because I thought it would be more personal(for a first time experience as a couple and my first time) but he really wanted to do it doggy.Don't get me wrong,I'm not a prude,and I do want to try other positions,but I didn't want my first time in that position.But anyways IT HURT SO BAD,omg I haven't felt anything like that before.It felt like he was tearing me apart.It burned. and ugh. Well anyways,now it hurts.Is there any cream or lotion or some feminine product I can use to ease the soreness and pain?

[Stacyzee]

You didn't have to do anything you didn't want to do. It was your first time and you should have taken control of the situation.

Having your back turned to your guy during your first time takes away from the intimate experience you two should have been feeling.

It seems as if he went rough on you when he should have been slow, he knew you were a virgin, and seemed to only care about his selfish needs. It doesn't seem has if he had any respect for your feelings.

[SCU2013]

well dince it was ur first time he shouldve understood to go slow because yea it does hurt...and unfortunaly its gonna hurt for a while. But next time explain that it hurts for you so he should slow down

[soccerbmxwow]

idk bouit your original question but starting of with doggy style is the worst it even hurts if your not a virgin you need to warm up with some other postion and if it burned you might not have been wet and made it really hurt like that