Making out and touching my crotch?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend(of one month) and I were kissing in the car, then making out in the car a little before we entered the movie theatre. we're both in our 20's, by the way. he was rubbing my thighs, and touched me a little down there. We have been sexually intimate before. Only once(he took my virginity, and I gave him a bj). He didn't disappear after that, and took me out on dates like just us hanging out spending time together nothing in his bed or anything. Was he trying to tell me he wanted to have sex again by touching my boob a little and touching my thigh and my crotch area? or just randomly touching me in the heat of the moment? I always freeze up when I kiss my boyfriend so my hands stay like hugging him :/ I hate it.

[bigoth]

It may just be more of an intimate thing for him. He finds it a way of being closer to you by letting his hands explore. Tho I am not saying it couldn't be that he wants to have sex again to. It is different from person to person to be honest.

[Phoenix1991]

he just loves you and maybe both, and the thing with your hands freezing and only clinging to him is normal, you will overcome that in time, just keep going along with the flow, =) he seems like a great guy.

[Asker]

lol I don't think he loves me yet. it's only been a month. Thanks tho

[Phoenix1991]

Oh I thought you two were dating already, then I don't know

[Asker]

Oh no, we're in a relationship. That's why I said my boyfriend ;P It's been a month. But I don't think he loves me, yet.

[Phoenix1991]

yea, I guess

[jacquesvol]

We Europeans will never understandAmericans LOL :D

[Phoenix1991]

@Jacquesvol Trust me, I'm an American and I don't understand Americans myself >_>

[cdot3787]

He obviously really likes you. He *could* be trying to tell you he wants to get closer, but the real question is, do you? If so, return the favor. Let your hands explore him, if he doesn't like it, he'll stop you.

[Asker]

yeah we've been getting closer. He just surprised me when he did that, but he stopped when he saw me freeze up and said what's wrong? I let him do it, though because I'm comfortable with him doign that but I'm still shy, even though he took my virginity a few weeks ago. Lol. I'm weird..