Masturbate on webcam to other guys, is it cheating?

Question

Im a virgin but I like to touch myself a lot and finger myself sometimes with objects. But I get more of an arousal when I go on webcam and do these things in front of strangers. I sorta have a boyfriend were no official because he's in the miltary so we decided not to. but is that cheating showing strangers my body being naked and stuff?every time I'm fingering myself I think of him and I moan his name when. I love him but I just have this side to me that I like exploring. is it cheating?

HandsomeRaj · Accepted Answer

1. Those who are strict about monogamy will call this cheating
2. However, saying that he's a 'sorta' boyfriend but it's not formal so I can do this again tantamounts to the same
3. It's all up in the head and how one perceives it
4. Since you don't have a formal relationship, it's all ok
5. But if do have a formal relationship and yet the person you are in a relationship is away for a long time, the human body will crave satisfaction to the most basic urge and reason for being in existence
6. The best thing is to be clear to yourself about it than wonder about whether things you do toe society's line or not
7. Everyone has certain things natural in them, you may like being an exhibitionist. I'd recommend always that find a partner who thinks similarly in which case it certainly won't be cheating :)

kheserthorpe · Accepted Answer

You sort of have a boyfriend but you're not official.

I think you can probably finger yourself on cam. When its official, you might want to discuss whether you two can do no-touch stuff like that that involves others.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

what site do you use? i want to do this too:) I don't think its cheating.. its basically masturbation. Do you go on webcam with your boyfriend too?

TheAnswerer · Answer

If you are not official with your boyfriend, then it isn't cheating. Unless you're going to have a serious relationship with one of these strangers, it's not cheating. It's just a sexual release.