Masturbating by humping boyfriend?

Question

ok so the only way I get off while masturbating is by humping a pillow or some other large, harder object. I don't like fingering myself because it doesn't do anything for me and I don't like the wet feeling on my hand, anyway I haven't been able to get off during sex with my boyfriend so he wants me to show him how I masturbate. I feel really silly about saying "I hump my pillow" lol but I think I could get off by humping his d*** while he's hard or his leg, not putting his penis inside but just laying on top of him and rubbing my clit against his shaft. Do you think this is weird? would it hurt a guy down there if I did that?

SomeGuy37 · Accepted Answer

You are not weird, at all! I have dated three different women, and they all loved 'humping' masturbation. Two loved pillows, but the other one loved this HUGE teddy bear!! She put a towel on it, and she hugged and humped it until she came, wearing her panties.
She was embarrassed to admit it, at first, but I think she really liked showing me!! She snuggled the bear, and rubbed against the terry-cloth towel, keeping her panties on. I asked why she didn't just 'love the bear' with the towel, naked (she had a REALLY nice bottom, and I wanted to see her doing that!!), she said the towel, without panties, was too abrasive, and hurt.
Just love your Joy, and don't let anyone judge you, or tell you that it is wrong, or strange, even your 'internal critic'!!

sa230e · Accepted Answer

I once saw this video of a girl masturbating by grinding her p**** on the arm of a big armchair and I remember thinking "I want to be that chair". I think it would be incredibly hot if a girl just used me as her sex toy and rubbed her soaking p**** all over my body. I'd LOVE it. I think he would too.

By the way, pillow humping is nothing to be embarrassed about. Lots of girls masturbate that way, it's perfectly normal (and pretty sexy to watch too).

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I used to have this problem. Some time when you feel really horny try having girl-on-top sex with him sitting kinda slumped/leaning back on pillows. Then get on top and grind really slow. Take your time. Lean forward so your getting good friction against his pelvic bone & he is at eye level with your chest. He can play with the twins while you focus on you. It might take a few times but you will start to orgasm like this. Then once you kinda get a feel for it, you can do the same with him on top. Then you can really enjoy penetration which is a great ability to have

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

yea, it would if he hears you moan, and go crazy while rubbing your clit on his d***. He would def love it.

jesseray · Answer

Sounds hot :)

Supertriston · Answer

It's not weird at all. But one of the MAIN REASONS for Wet Humping is to NOT lose Virginity, and not get Pregnant are the main 2. The 3rd is an Alternative to sex, and the 4th is a mass amount of Pleasure. And it wouldn't hurt a guy at all if you did that. It feels amazing to a guy if you rub it really hard. But sitting on him will really make his day incredible doing it.

johnny_hustle · Answer

This is how my ex and I used to get off when we were out on the porch while her dad was in the living room. She would wear cheerleader shorts. And I would wear basketball style shorts and have my d*** laying up against my stomach. This would happen on a bench, and I would be sitting down, kinda slouching to get in a good enough position and she will straddle me. She would work her hips back and forth, up and down on my d*** and rubbing in just the right spot on her clit. We will do it til she cums, and if I ever was about to come we would slow it down because well, a guy cumming is a bit messier and if her dad found out hahahah.

zany1234 · Answer

About the rubbing your clit/labias across a guys d*** while on top of him... No, it's not going to hurt him. I love it when girls do this to me and doesn't hurt at all. Just ask your boyfriend, I'm sure he'll tell you the same. Also, cowgirl is one of my favorite positions because I like the weight of a girl on my mid-section. So if you're somehow worried about that as well, don't. If that's your actual profile, then you're fine. If you're 500 pounds, then yeah you're going to crush his balls. Or if you're worried about anal leakage, like some people suffer, then practice on that pillow...well, I think you already know that by now.

GuyAskingGirls · Answer

Yea you can definitely just rub you clit up and down his shaft while he's lying on his back. He'll be hard and his d*** will be lying flat against him. Then you can just rub it on him.  It might actually get him off too. It's will definitely turn him on