Masturbating in your sleep?

Last night my boyfriend and I got each other off. I gave him head and he had come and he made me come too. I woke up in the middle of the night and he was masturbating in his sleep. He didn't come but he was jacking off. Is this normal? I don't mind at all if he masturbates whatsoever and we do it in front of each other but why would he be masturbating in his sleep?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Something a lot of women don't know is that guys will sometimes get hard and sensitive again after sex. I can't tell you how many times I've had sex before bed, and then ended up waking up as hard as a rock in the middle of the night. I would be twice as sensitive as I was the first time. The difference is.I can last longer than before, because I have already come once. It is a penis thing I guess.

    I don't have a wife that is much for being woken up for sex though, so I have been one of those guys that have gotten up and jerked off to take care of it. When I am really gutsy, I've done it right next to her while she slept. Talk about arousing.

    Don't let it bother you though. My suggestion is to blow his mind some night. After you have had sex and fall asleep.see if you can't wake him up about an hour or two later by stimulating his cock. I'll bet you will be pleased with the after sex- sex. And he will thank you for it too. But be warned. It probably won't be a quickie.

  • He was probably just having a sexual dream. I've had dreams where I woke up humping, but never masturbating. Doesn't sound too unusual to me.

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  • Because you didn't let him bust. Who gives oral and doesn't finish with swallowing. That is the worse thing you can do.give your mana blowjobs and not finish him off. You should be ashamed of yourself! Na just joking.you got your guy to a certain point then you left him high and dry. He had to finsh off himself off. Your guy won't stay happy for to long if you keep doing this. How hard is it to swallow his come anyways?

    • He did cum. I don't swallow but he did cum! I would never do that to my boyfriend. We always make sure we are both satisfied. Does it matter that I didn't swallow?

    • You should ask him...its important to a lot of guys. I mean guys have to taste us when they are down on us. Are you sure he is satisfied? Because guys won't say for reals.

    • He seems satisfied to me. Do you think this is a sign that he wasn't satisfied with me giving him a blow job and cuming? I guess I never asked him if he wanted me to swallow, I just told him up front that I don't do it so he never asked.

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  • First I've heard of it. Sounds fun, though.

  • haha that just sounds funny

  • a lot of times guys dream about sex if it has been on their mind that day.

  • idk I've done it before. I woke up at 430 once and I was doing it

  • well I often wake up masturbating in the night . I don't really know why it happens so I wouldn't think much of it . me and my girlfriend are just like you 2. we maturbate in front of each other.

    • Do you remember if you were having a sexual dream when you woke up?