Masturbation in Dorms?

I'm a girl obviously, and I'm kind of shy talking aloud with people about masturbation. But, I really need to figure this out. I need to masturbate sometimes, I'm easily aroused, and I have a roommate. What do I do? How do I accomplish what I want to do? Ugh... Lol
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For those of you who say do it while she is asleep. LOL. I am well, to say the least vocal. Very vocal. I also move quite a bit, and it's a dorm bed which squeaks of course. So... Fail.
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  • I learned to be quiet and not move around at home because I had a bunch of siblings and parents knocking on the door. Just laid on my back and did it under my clothes, slight hand movements and hip motions kept my mouth shut and controlled my breathing. If you’re climaxing open your mouth and just hold your squeal, and breathe out instead. My last roommate I had for first two years, was shy at first and after a couple weeks in just did this technique when she’s asleep and peak my head under the covers, and have a perfume bottle nearby in case it smells like... sex. That friend group openly talked about masturbation and she had a vibrator and did it in the shower. I don’t use one and am only comfortable doing it in bed so I always wait til she fell asleep or when she went home for the weekend. I have a new roommate in junior year now and she listens to rain sounds when she’s sleep so I KNOW she’s knocked out and wears a blindfold. It’s the 3rd day of school and I just did it, stood up and walked across the room to smell check, it was fine, laid back in bed. We also have a private bathroom. Do it when you’re VERY aroused and wet, not bored because when you’re not fully turned on that’s when the vagina has an odor, wetness makes it have no smell at all. My issue is I do it to fall asleep or when bored and am at risk of this sometimes so I have some perfume handy, or put deodorant on thighs or outside of underwear and keep it under the sheets. I’m out of the room more than she is and don’t know her schedule yet, and have never been caught doing it in the last couple years.

  • Ah yes I remember freshman year lol the hardest year of my life to masturbate. I almost got caught quite a few times. I figured out her schedule and would do it when she was at class or out for the night. Sometimes I'd do it when she was sleeping but I had to be really discrete. I almost got caught a couple times when she was at class, but then I started locking the door because I was "taking a nap" and wanted to keep the room safe while I was sleeping. That gave me time to stop when I'd hear her unlocking the door. It's kind of tricky but you'll figure it out!

    • Lmao. This made me actually "laugh out loud" A really good friend told me just to flat out ask her to leave for a while. Like I needed some personal time. But, my roommate doesn't have a car or anywhere to go. So... I'm hoping it works out during class time.

    • I am in freshman year and this has become an issue. When the year started the first couple weeks it was out of my mind since everything was new, I was busy meeting everyone, going to events, classes, getting to know everything. Then one night in the week It like crept up on me…I was really ‘in the mood’ and realized that “shit” I wasn’t at home and I didn’t know how to deal with it…I ended up waiting it out until my roomie was out the next day to deal with it... Since then I maybe get like a couple times out of the week when my roomie and I’s schedule arnt an issue. However, there are nights and mornings in particular where I get like or wake up extremely horny…and really, really want to do it but am paranoid about making noise. How did you manage to do it quietly? I really hate waiting sometimes… Thnx <3

    • @StacyL good answering, hope you've found a way

  • Do it when you're room mate's in class and you know she won't be back. My room mate flat out told me she loved Monday afternoon's because I was out of the room from 3-7 and it gave her plenty of time to masturbate. She planned her masturbation around my class schedule

    • Great answer

Most Helpful Guys

  • Maternalove:"wait until she's out for the night or do it at night when you're sure she's sleeping. just be quiet & don't make any big movements... Or go in the bathroom, lay in the tub and handle your business"

    I agree with maternalove.You have to be creative in such time as yours and make the opportunity counts when presented. Happy masturbing.Hope this help.

  • go to the bathroom or use your car late at night drive to an empty parking lot and finger yourself to you can't go anymore.

    or just get a man or something

    and if all else fails just do it whle she is sleep most liley she will act like she doesn't know so she doesn't have to deal with the situation

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  • wait until she's out for the night or do it at night when you're sure she's sleeping. just be quiet & don't make any big movements... Or go in the bathroom, lay in the tub and handle your business ;)

  • When you have the urge, you'll find a creative place to get it done. :D

    As the old saying goes, "If you have a nail, everything starts looking like a hammer."

    • I like it. lol.

  • Find an understanding guy, and use his room. If he's cute, let him watch.

    • Lol. easier said then done. haha

  • My roommate used to wait until he thought I was asleep -- he was in the top bunk, and I was in the bottom. The bed didn't sleep, but it shook a little bit... it was kind of a turn-on in a weird way, so I got in the habit of staying awake and waiting for it.

    Doesn't your roommate have a different class schedule? Isn't there ever a time you can be in the room when she still has class?

  • Well, I guess it depends on if you're super loud or anything? Cause if not, then what I would do is take the radio into the bathroom or something and turn on the water in the shower, then do your thing until you're done, then act like you just got outta the shower? I dunno, just think of stuff like that lol

  • Hey, tell us more. How did you survive your dorm time? :)

  • Do it when she's not around. It's not that hard to figure out. She's got to have class some time

  • if your attractive, call me over. if your not, lock the door and jack it when your roommates gone. quite simple.

    • Wow. Lol.

  • Just try not to make a lot of noise...

  • is that you in your profile pic?

  • Why not try the shower? Does your room mate masturbate? If she was making noise/ movement while playing then I don't see why you couldn't as well.

    • She wasn't... lol... I do!

  • Do it together. YESSSSS

    • Only if we can video tape it and send it to you when we're done! I'm not a lesbian... sorry.

  • Bathroom?