Masturbation in Dorms?

Question

I'm a girl obviously, and I'm kind of shy talking aloud with people about masturbation. But, I really need to figure this out. I need to masturbate sometimes, I'm easily aroused, and I have a roommate. What do I do? How do I accomplish what I want to do? Ugh... Lol

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I learned to be quiet and not move around at home because I had a bunch of siblings and parents knocking on the door. Just laid on my back and did it under my clothes, slight hand movements and hip motions kept my mouth shut and controlled my breathing. If you’re climaxing open your mouth and just hold your squeal, and breathe out instead. My last roommate I had for first two years, was shy at first and after a couple weeks in just did this technique when she’s asleep and peak my head under the covers, and have a perfume bottle nearby in case it smells like... sex. That friend group openly talked about masturbation and she had a vibrator and did it in the shower. I don’t use one and am only comfortable doing it in bed so I always wait til she fell asleep or when she went home for the weekend. I have a new roommate in junior year now and she listens to rain sounds when she’s sleep so I KNOW she’s knocked out and wears a blindfold. It’s the 3rd day of school and I just did it, stood up and walked across the room to smell check, it was fine, laid back in bed. We also have a private bathroom. Do it when you’re VERY aroused and wet, not bored because when you’re not fully turned on that’s when the vagina has an odor, wetness makes it have no smell at all. My issue is I do it to fall asleep or when bored and am at risk of this sometimes so I have some perfume handy, or put deodorant on thighs or outside of underwear and keep it under the sheets. I’m out of the room more than she is and don’t know her schedule yet, and have never been caught doing it in the last couple years.

vmw2008 · Accepted Answer

Ah yes I remember freshman year lol the hardest year of my life to masturbate. I almost got caught quite a few times. I figured out her schedule and would do it when she was at class or out for the night. Sometimes I'd do it when she was sleeping but I had to be really discrete. I almost got caught a couple times when she was at class, but then I started locking the door because I was "taking a nap" and wanted to keep the room safe while I was sleeping. That gave me time to stop when I'd hear her unlocking the door. It's kind of tricky but you'll figure it out!

iluvcartman · Accepted Answer

Do it when you're room mate's in class and you know she won't be back.  My room mate flat out told me she loved Monday afternoon's because I was out of the room from 3-7 and it gave her plenty of time to masturbate.  She planned her masturbation around my class schedule

richards · Accepted Answer

Maternalove:"wait until she's out for the night or do it at night when you're sure she's sleeping. just be quiet & don't make any big movements... Or go in the bathroom, lay in the tub and handle your business"

I agree with maternalove.You have to be creative in such time as yours and make the opportunity counts when presented. Happy masturbing.Hope this help.

dtaylor31906 · Accepted Answer

go to the bathroom or use your car late at night drive to an empty parking lot and finger yourself to you can't go anymore.

or just get a man or something

and if all else fails just do it whle she is sleep most liley she will act like she doesn't know so she doesn't have to deal with the situation

maternallove · Answer

wait until she's out for the night or do it at night when you're sure she's sleeping. just be quiet & don't make any big movements... Or go in the bathroom, lay in the tub and handle your business ;)

Vendrix · Answer

When you have the urge, you'll find a creative place to get it done.  :D   As the old saying goes, "If you have a nail, everything starts looking like a hammer."

l-hedoniste · Answer

Find an understanding guy, and use his room. If he's cute, let him watch.

CuriousEddie · Answer

My roommate used to wait until he thought I was asleep -- he was in the top bunk, and I was in the bottom. The bed didn't sleep, but it shook a little bit... it was kind of a turn-on in a weird way, so I got in the habit of staying awake and waiting for it.

Doesn't your roommate have a different class schedule? Isn't there ever a time you can be in the room when she still has class?

ThatTallGuy · Answer

Well, I guess it depends on if you're super loud or anything? Cause if not, then what I would do is take the radio into the bathroom or something and turn on the water in the shower, then do your thing until you're done, then act like you just got outta the shower? I dunno, just think of stuff like that lol