Men: Do you really get pleasure fingering a woman?

[Anonymous]

I love being naked at home. Walk around naked cook naked you get the point...My husband loves touching is always touching my boobs or my vagina (especially). Hence why I ask if its really pleasurable for a man to just sit there and finger a female while, lets say, watching a basketball game?

[Marfan]

Yes. I mean, it's not as nice as having my **** in there, but it's nice. A lot of it, I think, the ability to touch something that's "his" - no one else gets to play with it. And it's a way of showing affection and close contact. That's why it's called "petting". There are a lot of times that my wife enjoys just playing with my **** in the same way.

BTW - kudos on the naked-around-the-house thing. That's the sign of a hot, confident, woman.

[shrike092]

He does get pleasure out of it if he's giving you attention at the same same time and not some t.v. if he is giving you attention then he's really feeling it and getting into it, but if he's watching t.v. or something then he gives a sh*t less and just wants to keep you giving him some s.e.x when he wants it. That simple, ask questions if I was not clear enough

[Anonymous]

Im a lesbian so that about all I can do is fingering,but I get pleasure out of it because she is make orgasm sounds and the such. Mabby this isn't really the type of answer you were looking for lol =)

[Bruce]

I don't believe the Question Asker........knows what she is trying to elicit from these answers. "Fingering" IS JUST THAT..........."Fingering" and nothing more............I "fingered" "Girls" when I was a teenager, because I was so ignorant of what she might really want.......

[Bruce]

Fingering...in and of itself...without playing or licking her clitoris...doesn't do much for either of us.

Bruce

[Asker]

LoL! duh =) but thanks for trying to answer my question

[Bruce]

I don't understand your "duh" response........ "By "either of us"...........I meant the woman nor me gets much gratification by simply "fingerig" her vagina............. You asked about "pleasure" I believe.....?

[Asker]

The "duh" is because it's obvious, at least to me, that without clitoral stimulation there is no pleasure.

[iptvs]

Yes by fingering a woman , man also produces stimulus in its body, Do you like it or not,have you ever asked your husband what he feels?

[Asker]

I do like it it just gets annoying sometimes. I would love for him to caress me and love my WHOLE body. not just those two parts. and when he does caress my body it ends the same way sexual. I just want to be touched by gentle strokes sometimes.

[iptvs]

You should frankly told your husband what you want,relationships are of mutual understanding

[Marfan]

Yes, you SHOULD tell your husband that you want him to touch all of you. Honestly, I can't understand why he wouldn't. Girls are soft and curvy for a reason - because it's fun to touch them.

[Asker]

I do tell him. I am very honest with him about how things make me feel especially when I'm not liking it. He even says in too honest, he's not the first to say that either and I just don't understand that. I do understand the importance of communicating and trust me I communicate. His response to me telling him I just want to be caressed is ok... he'll pass his hand once or twice up my body and then stop at his favorite places and stays there.

[iptvs]

At the time when he caress you then you should ask him to do more or you should tell him that , lets add some novelty in sex this time as you are bored by same sexual act .Try this I think he will not refuse you.

[Anonymous]

You really walk around your house naked ?...Cook naked ? Where do you live...? What do you do for a living ...that you have the time to walk around the house 'naked" ?

Hard to understand your reason for asking such a question...

I don't know...ANYONE that walks around their home, naked...cooks naked...

That would get "old" quick for most people...

Doesn't sound like a question from someone who is between the ages of 25 and 29...

[Asker]

LoL! I have enough time to walk around naked as you do to walk around your house dressed. If you don't have a response to my question why post more questions? Why what I do for a living has to anything to do with the fact that I like to walk around naked. If it gets old then I hope my husband says something. I ask to make sure if he still likes it and he does. How old should I be to have asked this question?