Men only!!! would you sleep with an obese woman?

I'm just curious how many guys would and how many guys wouldn't because it seems that even though I am overweight there are still a lot of guys who want to take advantage of meand sleep with me. I heard that woman respond to images and men respond to touch. Is this true?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • i myself, and a VERY big girl, and very pretty too. I mean honestly, when it comes down to it, if you meet a guy, and he likes you, he might try and sleep with you. the thing that is bothering others, and myself, is that you let them sleep with you, and then make it seem like they used you. if you don't know the guy, and you are unclear of his intentions, you shouldnt sleep with him. to me, this is low self-esteem. like I said, they say guys will sleep with anything, but that's not true. you can ask a guy, and they will have some sort of standard in one way or another, for some it may be size, others it may be color, others it may be personality, kinkiness, you name it. as for you, get out, meet people, the older you get, I think they less men care about what others think, and give girls who aren't quote on quote the hottest a chance once they get to know her. fat people find love too, haha! stay more possitive, find something to like about yourself. maybe ur tits are better looking than a 110lb girls. maybe ur smile is nicer, man, I have skinny model looking sisters, and I know, that they have as many issues as I do about my sixe and guys, so. everyone is dealing with it!

  • sleep with = probably yes

    be seen in public with = um, depends on the guy and how fat you are

    before I get 1000 thumbs down, I am not saying you have to be stick skinny (I know MANY men who do not buy into the size 0 frenzy) but if you are obese and 50+ lbs. over your healthy weight that makes your body considerabley less attractive and men won't respond to it as much.

    there are a lot of fat girls who guys can play because they know they know they're less attractive and get desperate for male attention, but please don't become one of those girls.

    also I am NOT saying that fat automatically means you're unattractive, but please be realistic with yourself about whether you are a goodlooking girl who happens to be big or a girl who obviously is not desirable to men.

  • i won't comment on the whole sleeping with you thing, seeing how I'm not a guy.

    but youve got that last part opposite. men respond to images and fantasies, while women respond more to touch and emotions.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I've dated a few big girls, so it's not a dealbreaker for me. In fact, two of the sexiest women I've known were bigger than average (only one of whom I dated; the other was married). I don't know if they were medically obese, but they were both fit and confident, and confidence is the sexiest trait you can have.

    But I wonder about when you write "even though I am overweight there are still a lot of guys who want to take advantage of meand sleep with me."

    Do you always think of sex as "taking advantage" of you?

    People can take advantage of one another with sex, but it's not always the case. Sex can bring people closer together and be a lot of fun. So perhaps you should consider adjusting your outlook towards sex, especially if guys have taken advantage of you.

    And like I said, being big doesn't mean no one will ever like you. Some guys prefer large women, and some people are more concerned about personality than looks.

    Hope this helps!

    • I love men like you! Thank you for being you. I am larger than average and my fiance loves me for me.

  • I wouldn't sleep with an obese women because she'd not be my type even though I them very friendly and fun to be with. I would never take advantage of any girl no matter how she looked nor the situation. period! I think you got that last sentence wrong my mistake. Men respond to images and women respond to touch. Men are more visual and women are more emotional.

    • Let me correct my typos omg srry! I wouldn't sleep with an obese women because she'd not be my type even though I find them very friendly and fun to be with. I would never take advantage of any girl no matter how she looked nor the situation. period! I think you got that last sentence wrong by mistake. Men respond to images and women respond to touch. Men are more visual and women are more emotional.

    • Oh man, my sis was on her own user name and I was reading what I had written while she was on the phone and noticed my typos.. so I just corrected it like a dummy on her user name. I was in a hurry to leave and didn't even consider how it'd appear on here. haha! Not cool!! lol!

    • Hmmmm; really!!??:)

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  • It's not going to be the popular answer; however, NO, I would not sleep with an obese woman.

    I do not treat obese women differently (I have many obese friends, both men and women) but would not sleep with them. So, I can't apologize for my feelings and have no actions to apologize for.

    Now I have a question for you; would you be upset with a guy who wouldn't sleep with you because you were obese?

    • No I would not... I hate the guys who want to sleep with me... I see them as theives who want to steal my heart so that they can satify their own physical appetite.

    • Whoa, that sounds pretty bitter. Do you view all guys who want to sleep with you as just wanting to take advantage of you?

    • No, not always... I didnt' have sex with this guy but we used to kiss and make out and I never felt like he was a jerk.... He was the only sexual guy I knew that I had any respect for because he loved and cared about the welfare of every single human being that he had ever encountered.

  • Some guys sleep with obese women to take advantage of them. Some guys sleep with obese women because they prefer them. Some guys sleep with obese women because they'll sleep with anything.

    Does it really matter?

    P.S.: I thought the going wisdom was that men responded to images while women responded to relationships. But the going wisdom is usually oversimplified crap anyway.

  • Sadly, obese isn't descriptive. I know a few women who are considerably over the what the charts say they should be and they are still attractive.

    I have slept with women who were extremely overweight, many times. I don't really think about it too much since once you hit middle age, everyone gets heavier.

    Saw an article not to long ago that stated that heavy women are MORE likely to be sexually active than standard weight women. I suppose that has something to do with knowing how to use your mouth for pleasure. : )

  • for me no , and im'not going to take advantage of any girl , if I don't like her I'm not gonna date her anymore simple and easy , other people who likes or wanna take advantage from others I believe they'r sick .