Maybe he put some away in his jacket, bag, etc. In case things get hot away from the bedroom. Have sex with him like a demon until there are like only two or three left in the box. Then wait... If you notice that there is only one left, then take his pants off, use the last condom, make him ejaculate, suck him so he gets hard again and them ask him to put another one on. If
He tells you the box is empty, you can ask him how the box is empty since you guys only used a few condoms.
If that's too much, then you can either ask him point blank, which could damage him or have faith in him and not ask at all.
How many are missing? I always carry a condom in my wallet in case I end up doing it outside of my house. If the outside packaging starts to look beat up I replace it with a new one and throw the own old away. Using condoms to masturbate seems like a bad idea since you can't feel as much sensation but apparently some guys do.
Yes that is a big clue. First ask him. So how he reacts and says. If that is not satisfactory, Keep track of the condoms and his behavior. If you have access to his emails, phone, or wallet check it out.
I normally am not for snooping, but there is a good reason here.
yea I'm not the snooping type either. I know where he keeps them and I went to grab one because I wanted to surprise him with outdoor sex or something spontaneous and have the condom ready. then I noticed there were more gone that there should be. I'm devastated right now. but how do I ask without accusing him?
I'm sorry! There is simple way to ask. You are concerned and you have the right to be. So ask him directly and seriously. Write something down and rehearse it. That way you can keep it cool. WATCH his body language. If gets defensive, gets mad at you or projects guilt on you that is not good. keep your cool girlie! It is better for you. Update after you talk to him. Do it soon don't let is build up. Good luck
How old is your guy and how experienced is him regarding sex?
He could try to find some way to increase the pleasure he gets during sex with one on. there are many possibilities which I can't know unless I have more info about you as a couple.
He could of course have borrowed some to his friends?
If you want to, you could always mention it by next time look at the pack and casually say something like "Oh we don't have that many left" or something.
- Good luck! :)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!He was probably just loading them lol. And how do you bring this conversation, you just bring it to the table, find a pare of ovaries and confront him. Good Luck
-Using them for masturbation.
-Practicing putting them on.
-Giving some to guy friends.
-Making water balloons.
-Putting some in his clothes for when you two go out.
-Cheating
These are the things he could be using them for.
"Honey, did you take some condoms out of the box? There seem to be some missing."
The guys are right... you're overreacting... there are many reasons he could be using them. Relax.
why don't you ask him. simple!
-jacking off into them or
-training to learn put them on without fumbling or
-helping a friend (or sibling) in need. or
-putting some in another pace
Many possibilities.
do I ask him about it?
Oops , please read-putting some in another place Ask him jokingly if he knows where they are.
I didn't think about it: during the war G.I.s used to put condoms over the muzzle of their carbines/rifles so that no water or mud would get in. This if he's a hunter...
He was probably practicing putting them on and using them for masturbation.
Just because a few are missing doesn't mean he's cheating. I use them when I masturbate sometimes because there's no mess to clean up after I'm done that way. You just pull it off and toss it and done.
we have talked about how he likes to masturbate before and he never mentioned condoms. is that just something you wouldn't tell a girl? I never even thought to ask if he did with a condom so that may be why I don't know if he does or not. would it be weird to ask that question?
Yeah I don't think I would tell a girl I use them to masturbate unless she started asking me very specific questions about how I masturbate and what I use to clean up the mess. It would be weird to ask that question unless the subject of masturbating is already being discussed. If the only reason you have to believe he's cheating is a few missing condoms that's not enough evidence. I would just forget about it. He probably practiced putting them on and masturbated with them.
What he said.
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