Missionary Anal

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I are going to try anal sex soon. This is a first time anything for me! We want to use the missionary position so we can kiss and see each other's faces. Question is, what's the best way to hold my legs for him and me. Should I fold them and bring my knees up to my chest? Or is it better to fold them and them pull them to the sides of me? Or is it still better just to bend them at the knees and put my feet up in the air?

[ditzytiggsie]

Hmmm. I would say, the best way if you both want to see each others faces is for you to lie on your back and bring your legs up so your feet are by your head if that makes sense. you will need to be quite flexible however. The other way which might be best for your first time if for you to lie on your front and seperate your legs slightly, and he then penetrates from behind. however you wouldn't be able to look into each others eyes etc. I must warn you, the first time HURTS. Use PLENTY of lube and a really thick condom, and make sure you do plenty of anal foreplay. I would suggest actually getting some anal beads, which will help prepare you and hopefully make it less painful. Most importantly make sure you're relaxed and don't let your fella push you into anything you're not comfortable with. Hope this helps chick :) xx

[CastAwayRI]

Good move going anal first! If You learn to come this way, it will be easier for You to come for life. And You will have better orgams. You can try a bunch of positions. If You do doggy in front of a mirror, like a mirror You stick on the wall, You can see each other's faces. LOVE seeing her face when the d*** first stretches butt hole. You can't learn enough about anal, so read up here an other places. www.puckerup.com is great. Anal Advisor. Make sure he not only eats yuor ass first, but that he learns to LOVE eating your ass. Passionate about it. IT makes the ass fu ck beter for You both. Good luck!

[michigan2489]

well, I'm not a girl as you can see but I was told that is is better for the first time if you bend your knees and bring you legs up, it will be easier to get your ass to open and not hurt as much. make sure to use lub and to go slow at first the last thing you want is tu hurt. It can be a great thing to do but if it hurts the first time there's chance you will not want to do it again. I've always been lucky with that, all my ex and present girl all loved to have anal sex and one of them also almost always had orgasm from it.

[l-hedoniste]

Depends on how strong and flexible you are in your knees and back. As a general rule, do what's most comfortable.

[wally]

Okay what's going on today everybody talking about anal sex , try what ever come up at the moment don't plan or think too much in it just be spontaneous .

[DaBuzzman]

I think easiest way is to have a pillow underneath you, and him bend your legs as far back as possible to your head legs over his shoulders and your hips bent back and he can easily enter it. I would use a lot of lube or oil on him and your ass so it goes easier and enjoyable for the both of you and you'll need to take your mind off of it somehow because you could be nervous and will be clenched? Take it very slow. He will prob cum very fast for awhile too. Very tight and feels diff than the vagina. But That worked for me in this position in the past.