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(Muslim Girls only) I don't know what to do. Help me?

I'm Muslim, 23, single, and living with my family. For the past few months I have been feeling really horny. I have not talked to a single guy or have any particular guy in mind. But, every guy in public glances or stares at me. Even though I am with my family, I feel something is missing in my life. I'm still studying doing my undergrad degree. I get depressed for no reason just thinking about someone getting married. The nerves in my body start hurting, so I masturbate and orgasm get the tension out, but it comes back again. What solutions do you girls have for me if any? I want to have the happy life I had before.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Keep Masturbating for your pleasure... nothing wrong init..as your not causing harm to any one by doing it..its jus a physical pleasure tat your satisfying yourself..n nothing much...

    i knw Muslim grls... have frnds... knw how they feel because I speak to them... guy inur life fr sex might be a problem if tat guy turns out to be an idiot...so you can use alternate till then lyk..vibrators or other sex toys... and comign to the point of friends..doesn't matter if you have a lot of frnds or none..doesn't link to frnds if your horny or not... so jus chill...

    it jus the negative thought tats keep on coming on your mind tats it... be positive..its jus normal and common... your not hurting any one...wat ever your doing your doing to yourself...

    hope my ans helped you... sry if I had offended you by any which ways...

  • I know you asked for Muslim girls only but all humans are equal regardless of race, gender and religion. I feel you need to think about what you truly want in life and strive for it. If masturbating helps you then just keep doing it, until you find some other way to satisfy your desires. I apologize again for answering especially if me being male answering offends you, but as I said we are all humans and are equal, no matter what anyone says to the contrary. Wishing you luck and happiness..

    • No I don't mind. I really appreciate your opinion!

    • Hi how are you email me if you still want friend to talk to thanks

Most Helpful Girls

  • I am a Muslim girl. And I would suggest you to occupy yourself. Go to the gym, hang out with your friends, meet new people.. maybe the person you have been waiting for and who's gonna satisfy you is one of them. ( and when I mean satisfy I clearly mean marry you since you are Muslim and I assume can't have any sort of sexual relationship with a man) .

    I know some people are gonna judge you. But don't care. Put your trust on Allah.

    Good luck!

    • The thing is I have no friends (literally). I'm quiet. Everywhere I go I am walking alone and discovering things alone. I go to college, I am alone, and when I am home, I am alone, because my family has different interests. Girls that I talk to seem to be either busy or form their own group of friends to hang out with. I thought the main reason of my situation is because I have no friends. Is that true? Does it make a difference? Or even if I occupy myself Alone will that work too?

    • as long as you occupy yourself , whether you are alone or not , it will work :) Keep your head up and be proud of yourself!

    • Do you still get horny?lol why you guys are anonymous?Message me lets have a group of Muslims here.

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  • You are a woman. You are a human being. Being horny is natural and completely normal. You are 23, I experienced the same at your age. If you are not forced to marry someone your family chooses, try to get imn contact with guys. Nothing is wrong with it as long as you feel comfortable, no matter WHAT you do. If you feel good it can't be wrong.

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  • You can't go back if you start masturbation and you crave fir a dick i too feel horny i used to masturbate 10 time a day but recently I have started praying 5 times a day and I go to gym so that I could workout and after that I feel tired and I don't get that horny I fall asleep I only have masturbation 3 to 4 time till now from April

  • I had this problem when I was more younger
    I simply started having sex with guys

  • If u Ar religious then get married with your parents choice... if u want a relationship then until you are sure u found the right man don't loose it... third option is to masturbate when ever you feel doing it... masturbation is healthy and if it forbids according to your religious beliefs then just get married

  • You need to email brother ismaeel on islam786@live. co. uk. He can give you the best advice.

  • i was also born in a muslim family and raised as one, but i turned out to be very sexually oriented person and have massive strong urges, i love pornography and masturbate almost everyday otherwise i'd go mad and cannot sleep and feel at peace.
    Masturbation is the only relief you can do in your own private space or room. Best relief is Sex and i would love to help.

    • You can only help me if you marry me. Otherwise your not muslim.

  • First off sorry but you're wasting your time asking here. I strongly recommend you get married I know myself and most of my friends would treat any woman they get married to right. I also have urges and my #1 advice is stay as far away from male friends and porn as you can trust me. When you're horny you're letting off pheromones men can naturally pick up on that. Masturbating is haram but it's still better than zina. But you should still avoid masturbating. Ask your brother, every friend I have I ask myself would I let this guy marry my sister, because his friends are gonna me more themselves with him. While if they talk to you or a female friends they'll be putting their best foot forward. Stay away from secret marriages it such BS most guys that did that I know of ended up leaving the girl for the next one.

  • Hi asker! I'm actually facing the same problem. I'm a guy, and very lonely, muslim, currently studying my degree but get veryyyy depressed and horny a lot of times. Like Asker said. Masturbating helps me relax for a few minutes and then I feel it all again... Asker can we get in touch?

  • Anissa are you that? ;-)

  • I think it's normal to feel all tensed up when our hormones are over-acting... particularly at a certain age.

    Just go along with your beliefs, and don't let society sway you. Things will work out fine. Above all: be true to yourself.

  • I'm a Muslim man and I feel the same and I'm not married yet , what you need to do is to keep yourself busy with useful things and pray much and make much Wudu it's going to help you , I go to orphanage to teach little boys and girls computing and other things and I take long walks and I work out. try and it'll going to help you so much.

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