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My boyfriend says I 'squeeze' him when I laugh during sex?

My boyfriend and I were having sex ( I was ontop ) and I'm fairly new to sex so this position was just easiest for me. He said something that made me giggle, and then was like what the heck? He told me when I laughed he could feel me 'grab' his penis and it tickled him? Then I cracked up I thought he was joking and he was like you have to stop laughing you're squeezing me? Is this normal? I don't think it's because of his girth, my boyfriend is not very large or girthy is there something wrong with my body?
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Does this mean I'm too loose or too tight? My boyfriend is 5 inches and isn't very girthy but I guess for me he is. It hurt a bunch when I gave him my virginity and I still get sore. I just wonder if something is weird with me? He says I'm not loose at all and it feels good I just felt so EMBARRASSED I wanted to die. :/
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Doing kegels is a good thing. It gives you better muscle tone down there, and if you do them during intercourse it can be very exciting for your boyfriend and help make your own orgasms better. You can use them in different ways: for instance, I squeeze and release as my boyfriend is thrusting, and then just before and during his orgasm I squeeze and hold. He absolutely adores it. Here are a couple of links that should help:

    https://www.wikihow.com/Do-Kegel-Exercises

    www.cosmopolitan.com/.../

  • Same thing will happen when you orgasm
    Your vagina is a muscle and you have nice strong vaginal walls and pelvic floor and thsts awsome. Read about kegels your boyfriend and any future lovers will love you for doing them nd most of all it benefits you and your orgasms

  • It's your kegel muscle, the one you use when peeing. You can do it any time you like and he will feel it. The stronger your muscle the tighter it will feel for him when you do do it. There are exercises you can do to strengthen it. They're called pelvic floor exercises.

Most Helpful Guys

  • No you actually have muscle control over your vagina. Some people train both their control (so they can use it normally) and strength using muscle exercises usually called Kegel exercise. This can give a bunch of benefits for you and your partner not only during sex.

    Try explore it if you are interested :)

  • When you laugh your squeezing your muscles together in you vagina. Many women use those muscles to masasue a guys penis during sex. Try practicing it and then the next time you have sex tease him with it and milk his cock.

    • Um how can I do that? I'm petitie and it was hard for him to 'get in' without a lot of pain the first time. We changed condoms and used some lube and it was much easier and I didn't feel pain, but it didn't feel great. I think I just need to practice more. ): Is it normal to hurt from your stomach down after being ontop? I couldnt walk right my thighs still hurt!

    • Those are your muscles being sore from being used more than normal. Which is why your thighs also hurt. Try practicing on a dildo. Put it in you then stand up and try to hold it in. A always use as much loob as needed and try to spend more time in for play.

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  • Its normal, laughing contracts your muscles which in turn would result in the squeezing.

  • No, well I don't think so. It's probably just the muscles in your stomach contracting from laughing that's causing the "squeezing". :)

  • You have muscles down there and when you contract them the vagina tightens. If you laugh, you contract a lot of core muscles so I understand those are included.

  • Nothing wrong at all. Laughing is making your PC muscle flex like in a kegel exercise.

  • No. Nothing is wrong with your body. You just clench your muscles when you laugh and he felt it. No big deal.

  • yeah i do it too don't worry

  • Its natural. You can also do this why sitting on him while he is inside. And kagel. Just flex and contract. He will love it.

  • yes it's normal, and it feels phenominal from the guy's point of view.

    my advice, practice using those muscles, it will blow your sex partner away!

  • It's quite normal, you'd squeeze him if you sneezed as well. Some woman practice squeezing with kegal exercises so they can squeeze the penis at will and make their man cum quicker.

  • no it's normal, when you laugh you tense up "everywhere"

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