"My boobs are definitely bigger than yours!" What is that all about?

I wear a 36C/34D, but I'm using a minimizer because I don't want to have guys look at my boobs all time. I'm shy. I have a very close friend whom I love. She wears a push-up bra wherever she goes and her boobs keep bouncing. I don't say anything about it. It's her boobs, not mine. So, she asked which size I wear and I told her. She said "Noway. I wear a 36C and I definitely have bigger breasts than yours". I explained to her, POLITELY, that I wear a minimizer and that she wears a pushup bra. She never stops saying that her boobs are bigger. What is all this fuss about? like why is it important for her to prove her boobs are bigger? I keep on explaining to her and she gives me that look. Sigh. I don't really understand. How should I answer her next time? I'm fed up.
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  • She's really jealous. The likelihood, I think, is that she actually feels very inferior to you, and felt like, you know, her boobs were *one thing* she really had on you. And then she finds out you've really got that on her too, and it eats her up real bad. Next time she asks, don't even answer, just say 'Why do you keep going nuts about this? It's real unbecoming.' or something. Hopefully she'll engage you on it. Get to the bottom of it... She'll admit her feelings, hopefully.

    I had a friend like that. Went absolutely nuts on me all the time, like really crazy. Every time I spoke to his girlfriend. The reason for that was, a long long time before they were ever a thing, me and her had a bit of a thing on. And that got inside him, because he felt like she deserved a guy like me. He's kinda antisocial and a bit awkward, and I'm slick and 'socially suave', he puts it, and I'm all cool and credible, and he feels sh*t compared to me. And I had no idea, for six years! And that was the reason for his bouts of hostility.

    Yours is a less extreme example, I feel...

    • You charming guy you ;-) But why would she feel jealous if we share the same natural boob size? The only difference is that I wear a bra which makes my boobs look smaller while she wears a bra which makes her boobs look bigger. Why feel jealous then?

    • ;D Well, she thought hers were BIGGER, is what I'm saying. It's not the boobs that are the issue here, that's what I'm *saying* - it's how she feels overall. The boobs are just setting her off.There's a lot more under the surface. I'm telling you, go and dig into it.

    • Sorry for being dumb. I read your answer and I understood what you were *saying*. Makes sense. :)

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  • Well she seems to enjoy talking about them. Maybe you should just say that they do look bigger. She might be happy to hear that since she probably wants to feel like they are. It's not like you're trying to compete with her, so if you give her that satisfaction she might be satisfied with that. I personally... am a guy... so it's not like I have boobs to understand your situation :P

    Good luck though, I hope she stops bugging you.

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  • This happens to me too and it gets on my nerves. I'm 30DD/28DDD and I don't usually reveal my size to people but my roommate asked what size I wear and I told her DDD and she accused me of lying and said that there was no way I could be DDD because she's claimed that she's bigger and only 36C and that there is no possible way I could be anything more than C. Like really, does it even matter? Now, whenever someone asks me what my cup size is I say C cup. From now on the only person I'll reveal my true size to is my boyfriend, and I don't have one yet so for now its my business only.

    Your friend is just jealous. Next time don't answer her. Or just tell her what she wants to hear.

    • Woah! This happened to you too! Glad I'm not alone in this, lol. Isn't it so stupid? Girls and their jealousy. Sigh...

  • Girls and tit insecurity. Just as bad as guys and their small penis insecurity. Literally just tell her boob size doesn't matter and to leave it alone already because you are getting annoyed by it

    • Why would she feel insecure if we share the same natural boob size? The only difference is that I wear a bra which makes my boobs look smaller while she wears a bra which makes her boobs look bigger.

  • She's a retard

    You've no reason to explain sh*t to her. Her bragging about her "big" boobs is like a fat chick bragging about big boobs, it doesn't count.

    Just ignore her

    • I love her. :/ I just don't understand why it's important to her to prove her breasts are bigger? We're not in high school!

    • I'm sorry :( Maybe it makes her feel better? That's why I say just ignore her...

    • Thanks. :) I do, but it bugs me when she keeps insisting. Ugh.

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  • haha wear a push up bra next time and freak her out! lol

    • lol I'd look huge with a push-up bra.

    • haha that's the point

    • Evil idea! hahaha

  • Don't worry about your boob size , a male wouldn't just like you just beacuse of your boobs , just don't worry about her let her say what every she wants

    • Haha, I'm not worried about my boob size. I just want to understand why is it so important for her to keep on proving her breasts are bigger. What's the point?

    • She probably likes the size of your boobs and trying to make you jealous of hers , 1-5 one being barley any boobs , what are you ?

    • We're both 36C, so why would be jealous?

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  • Haven't you ever gone to the beach in a bikini with your friend? I'd think that'd settle things.

    How much to each of you weigh?

    • Incidentally, you don't need to worry about a minimizer with a 34D bust. It's defintely not too big. In fact, that's pretty near the perfect size. You should shoot for a bra that just pushes out out and up and enhances your shape. It'll look super hot. Plenty of women will be jealous of your bust, and from what it sounds like, so is your friend.

    • I know I'm weird. It looks so hot which makes me feel shy. Guys stare at my boobs all the time. I know ALL girls want that kind of attention, but I don't. Weird, huh?

    • I little bit. I thought you girls enjoy looking hot! lol! You shouldn't feel shy about it--being attractive is something to be proud of. Do you have a guy you like or a boyfriend?

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  • Just tell her you don't give a sh*t and let that be end of it. Like you ladies are too old this high school petty sh*t.

  • the next time you and her go out just wear a push-up bra. That would surely make her jaw drop. And she does that to put you down. :( she just wants to say that she has bigger boobs then you.

  • could you just give the guys pleaseer in watching? 'you can look but , you just can't touch" so can they at-lest have the right to look? hahha stop the torture!

  • She's obviously jealous of people with larger boobs than her

    • why would she feel jealous if we share the same natural boob size? The only difference is that I wear a bra which makes my boobs look smaller while she wears a bra which makes her boobs look bigger.

    • Idk. Some people are weird like that

  • This happens to me as well, because girls with smaller boobs want bigger boobs and girls with big want smaller, basically she's being a nob

    • We both are 36C in size. The only difference is that I wear a bra which makes my boobs look smaller while she wears a bra which makes her boobs look bigger. So, why would she feel jealous?

    • Girls a stupid, a lot of girls have conpetitve friendships, so your probs a pretty girl with generally big boobs so she probabbly is not as good look with the same size boobs, so she might think that, that's something she has that you don't - when you actually do (if you get me)

    • Yeah, thanks. It makes sense. She does "look" bigger though cos she wears a push-up bra. She gives me that "you're a liar/I don't believe you" look when I explain why I "look" smaller (because I wear a minimizer).

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