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My boyfriend always has to finish himself off...

Whenever I give my boyfriend a blowjob/handjob, I can't get him to come. Today I was going at it and an hour passed and I was just blah and he felt I was so he asked me if I wanted him to do it. I just let him; this has happened the past several times. I don't know if it's me, but when I watch him finish himself, he jerks it so hard and fast. I've asked him to show me the grip he uses and it's so tight. I can't keep a tight grip and go as fast as we wants me to at the end. Is there anything we can do? I've tried waiting a few days and then doing it to him but it's still the same and he's told me he doesn't masturbate. He's also told me it feels good and I'm good at what I'm doing, but it's just the ending that I can't get. Please help!
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Most Helpful Girls

  • keep practicing, don't get discouraged :) also, him not masturbating is probably a load of crap... but whether he does or doesn't shouldn't be too much of an issue. sometime holding off on it might make it easier for him to come but he should still be able to either way. maybe you could have him put his hand over yours so it's still your hand but he can show you how he likes it and help you out.

  • Interesting that he can show you his grip and he can finish himself, yet doesn't masturbate...HMMMM. Oh well.

    Start slower, pick up pace. Don't do the same pace the whooolle time. Make sure he's as turned on as possible, tease him, talk dirty to him, this will speed up the process.

    If you are unable to go fast you should start working out your arms and stuff.

  • Its the same for me I just know I'm really bad at this but I'm sure your not some guys just need an extra push to finish.

Most Helpful Guys

  • sometimes we just need it quick and hard to get over the hill...it's nothing to do with you I'm sure...if he couldn't get it up at all then maybe but no he just needs it that way to come I guess... just try getting him worked up before going down on him...tease a bit maybe that will help.

  • Try working out your jerking muscles until you can go as fast as him. It sounds funny but that's the only thing I can think of that will work.

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  • Can he come during sex?

    • We haven't had sex yet.

    • Oh I was just wondering because you said he uses a really tight grip

    • That has me worried too. When we have sex, will it be enough for him?

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