My boyfriend can't satisfy me sexually?

its a very weirds situation. I love this guy very much but the sex is not good at all. I feel bad telling him this because you know how guys can get with all their male egos bruised! so I subtly tried many other things...but its not working. I just can't have an orgasm with him... would any of you marry someone with whom you just can't feel sexually satisfied?
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  • If you can`t orgasm with him but you do love him a lot just get yourself off and make yourself c.u.m. first and then have sex and just spend a lot of time on foreplay

    • thats what I do...

    • Then teach him what you like, what debsman has said is quite good

  • Can you bring yourself to orgasm? If so, have you told him what you like/what it takes to get you there? Good communication is key to a good and satisfying sex life.

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  • He needs to be shown how to satisfy you. Try playing a "discovery" game with him. For example: You guide his fingers to help him discover what to touch and make you feel good. Show him what you do when you masturbate and show him where your clit is. Tell him how you like it stimulated both with fingers and tongue. Maybe if you make it a partner type deal like "we are gonna make me cum". Don't give up too soon. Remember men aren't born with the knowledge of how to satisfy a woman.

  • Have you ever had an orgasm? Was it a g-spot one or clit one? Have you told him what you liked? Have you told him to watch you get off so he can learn? Ever think about letting him use a toy on you to help you get your cookie?

    There are a lot of unanswered questions here.

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  • The only way to get better at anything is to hear what you're doing wrong and correct it. If he can't do that, then never mind sex--he's not ready for *adult life*.

    That said, we are all responsible for our own orgasms; if our partner isn't getting us there, it's our job to tell them how, not their job to use their super-psychic orgasm-discovering power. The only reason you can't orgasm with your partner is because you don't want to. If you did, you would just do what it takes.

  • I don't think I could marry such a person, but it all depends on how much I would love him. I love sex and I don't imagine that I could be with someone who doesn't know how to satisfy me... I think I would just stop loving him and start to look for someone else, it would be stronger than me...

  • does he do anything besides intercourse to get you an orgasm?

  • I try to read between the lines here and you are asking if it is socially acceptable to dump someone only because they are bad in the bed. Well, who cares what others think? It is your life after all.

    Anyways, I think it is important to function well sexually in a relationship. If the sex doesn't work I suggest you to dump him. That's what peoplee do.

    If you really, really, want this guy anyways I suggest you to try and explain to him what you desire, like, "hey, I'd like you to be more ruff and manhandle me tonight, okay?" Then if he does it well you just say, "yeah, that was great, lets do that every time we have sex from now on!". I think that might spare his ego a little.



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  • Is his technique crummy or is it a problem you have generally? Have you has orgasms with others or masturbation? If yes and this is important to you, which is not unreasonable at your age, and you are certain this can't be fixed, you may want to spare yourself and him sorrow by moving on. Your chemistry doesn't appear to work.