My boyfriend caught me with another guy?!

[Anonymous]

What do I say to him? I mean that was really embarrassing. And I knew that really hurt him. My mom let him in the house when she didn't know that I had a different guy in my room. And we were having sex. My boyfriend walks in and stars beating the crap out of the other guy. What do I do about this?

[themastaplan]

how about, I'm a wh0re, I phucked up, you deserve better, I'm sorry...

you really phucked up...karma will screw you so hard over in the future, I cannot wait till you feel your boyfriend, excuse me EX bf's pain as he did when he walked in that door...how could you, if you're gonna cheat break up with him

that guy deserved every punch and if I were him I probably would have spit on you...

sucks doesn it - now your boyfriend knows your a wh0re, but even worse so does your mom LMAO LMAO!

you suck...karma will come for you

[dave216]

If he has any self respect he will never speak to you again. If he does talk with you, just tell him you are scum and ashamed to look him in the eye. Promise to never contact him again, and then stick to your promise.

[Asker]

That's rude.

[kaythanksbye]

LOL

[Skeptic]

Nah, it's honest! :D

[Anonymous]

You got caught red-handed. You humiliated him, and got the other guy seriously hurt. What's even worse is that you don't even sound like you care. I'm reading your comments and you think this is a complete joke. You are either a troll, or a brutal sociopath.

If you're that much of a whore than don't waste an innocent guy's time with a relationship.

[Anonymous]

you can't do anything..why would you wanna? you had sex with the guy cause you wanted to...just break up! he can't live with the thought of my girlfriend cheated on me and she might do it again crap

even if you talk it ou with him you still hurt him...cant do anything

[Eiffelgirl21]

Open relationships are no good..you might as well call it no relationship just friends with benefits...I do not know how you could even have sex with another guy..if you loved him.. I do not even know how you can have sex with anyone but your boyfriend... :-/

[38rakia38]

Simple answer...

Don't be a dumb ass and get some on the side.

If he's smart, he'll dump your retarded a**.

[Asker]

I tOld him I wanted an open relationship. And he agreed. Which is why I don't know why he acted the way he did.

[38rakia38]

Note: Should've mentioned that IN the actual question. On that note... He pretty much committed assault. If he was cool with an open relationship, then he's got no right to beat on someone else. Maybe you should switch to having girls as a secondary. Might curb his appetite for hitting people.

[Asker]

Are you suggesting I have sex with girls? WellthT would be a sight to walk in on. But he wouldn't hit anyone. Ok. So he didn't agree to an open relationship. But I told him and I don't really care whether he waned me to or not.

[38rakia38]

Wait, wait...let me get this straight. You said you wanted an open relationship, boyfriend didn't exactly agree to it... But you're doing it anyway? The sex with girls thing was a joke, btw.

[Asker]

Well I'm not doing it anymore. We talked it out and he's giving me one more chance. But he said I can only have sex with him.

[mdmaddogmd]

How about I'm sorry I ruined your trust in me and I understand you probably will want nothing to do with me at this point.

[peace-love-couture]

Hopefully he'll break up with you, move on and find a better girl and you can learn from your mistakes...

[shamus1992]

yeah sho sh*t.

[themastaplan]

i ahve no sympothy for you what so ever...you did this to yourself and you deserve to be hurt emotionally every day for the next 8 years, maybe 10...seriously, you suck, I have no sympothy for cheaters

[maureen]

i hope your boyfriend is smart enough to leave you. just leave the poor guy alone. I am sorry

[jacro]

well you better tell him the truth you stupid cow and beg for forgivness or he should find somebody who can keep there legs closed

[Asker]

I'm not a whore if that's what you're implying.

[jacro]

not implying that at all but why do people do it ohh I love ths person so much so I'm gonna shag somebody else

[themastaplan]

you aren't...i could have sworn you cheated on your bf...thats a whore...

[Slugworth99]

If you ever get married, what are you going to do? You're supposed to be off the market. You put yourself still out there, and your husband may kill you.

What if you get pregnant? I know that I would encourage my son to stay away from you.

[citrush2o]

If this is real, which is insanely unlikely, then you're pretty much a whore and need to get out of the dating scene until you've matured. For goodness sake, you're under 18?! Wtf?

[zdagger]

Move on, he couldn't handle it if you told him it was an open relationship obviously.

[Livvypuent]

Learn from it...!

[Milesdavis2998]

This is actually pretty amazing! Two guys were fighting over you! Who won? The curren or the old boy friend. If the new guy did, give the first boyfriend a ration of crap and tell him he couldn't even defend himself against a naked dude. If the new guy lost, repeat the process. This is the human condition at it's best! If the old boyfriend wants to know why, tell him he wasn't good enough. You win this either way.

[Hello_World]

No1 seemz 2 be givin you a straight answer...

You mus put up dem chalk board in da kitchen. In da 1st column you put da guys names you are currently banging. You need dem big azz chalk board to fit it in girl. Den next to da first column you put da "IN" and da "OUT" box. Ask your boyfriends to respek you and tick them boxes when they are doing a b00ty call. Dis way your mom knows wats happenings and it won't happens again. Peace girl!

[shamus1992]

i was reading you comments, and it doesn't matter if you have an open relationship or not, if you had walked in on your boyfriend banging another girl, you would have flipped, if your young enough to live with your mom then nobody will have enough self control not to.

so what I'm saying is, its a you problem, no blame on him. count yourself lucky though some guys with a worse temper and less respect for women would have started hitting you after he was done with him

[Asker]

But he shouldn't have flipped out and starting HITTING him. I was having Sex with another guy. So what. He shouldve just walked out.

[shamus1992]

yeah, he shouldve done a lot differently, but its YOU that are the problem and "so what" you were CHEATING ON HIM! Anyone else but the worst of skanks would back me up in saying that's bad. you cannot in any way justify what you did alright? so don't even try. just end things with him before things get worse. best case scenario he won't tell all of his (and yours) that ou were cheating on him. be nice to him or this will be the case. i can say all of this because I have been in a similar situation

[Asker]

But we were in an open relationship. He knows that I'm having sex with other people. He shouldn't have over reacted. It's not fair. I DO love him. But I like sex and I like it from different people not just one person. I TOLD HIM THAT WHEN WE FIRST HAD SEX!

[shamus1992]

obviously he didn't register the open relationship part. but regardless, you would have flipped out if you had walked in on him. my point is that you cannot, should not, and if you have any self repsect (and respect for him) left, you won't try to justify it. it doesn't matter if its an"open relationship", because somewhere along the line one of you didn't understand it. Just tell him that you fell terrible and that you will do whatever he asks (like not talk to him, not ever see him).

[Asker]

But I love my boyfriend. I dO want to make him happy.

[shamus1992]

well I'm not trying to be a d***, but if you don't want to hurt him, don't talk to him and make sure to avoid him. if he's got self respect he won't want to see you again

[Asker]

Well. He gave me another chance. He said if I have sex with anyone but him it would be over. And now he said he's not giving me sex for a while. Till I prove to him.

[shamus1992]

god help that guy

[suavaye]

call yur old boyfriend and tell him yull give him anal for as long as he wants, you two should be square after that

[Carping]

"I wanted an open relationship. He didn't. I'm gOing to do what I want."

"I tOld him I wanted an open relationship. And he agreed. Which is why I don't know why he acted the way he did."

You can't even make up your mind as to what the truth is. You try to explain those 2 different statements to yourself

[Electric_Dreams]

I think you're an idiot.

[MyNameIsJonas]

OMG that is sketch... OK well tell him that your sorry. that's all you can honestly say. if you cheated you probably were not happy with him in the first place

[Skeptic]

You could glue your coochie closed! :D

[DonMichelle]

Forgiveness would take a while and you'd have to agree to certain things...

1) Intense anal therapy - Your purification would begin with relentless bumming for no less than 5 hours a day, for 4 weeks

2) The removal of your thumbs - It's common knowledge that women with no thumbs are more faithful to thier men

3) More intense anal therapy - The savage bumming will have to be endured for a further 4 weeks, this time only 3 hours a day

[themastaplan]

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA I lol'd at work LMAO LMAO HAHAHAHHA 2) The removal of your thumbs - It's common knowledge that women with no thumbs are more faithful to thier men SCORE! LMAOI

[DonMichelle]

HAHA, LMAO, LOL?... you make my cure sound comical, people who read your comment will think that I've sat down smirking to myself thinking 'what ludicrous, obscene, useless crap can I write whilst making it look professional and based on fact' when this isn't the case at all. I have you I'm king in my field of work, 'exorcism via the arsehole' in whish the arse is widened and destroyed using the therapy mentioned so the 'whorish demon' can be extracted. Women with thumbs can't be trusted.. FACT!

[Eiffelgirl21]

I object. There are some women that are just as trusting or more trustful than guys..like me. Oh, and yes, I have two thumbs :-D

[sovetskii13]

You had a boyfriend, but had sex with another guy at the same time? That means you do not love your boyfriend. Break up.

[Asker]

I told him I wanted an open relationship. I'm not the one in the wrong

[Jahdoo]

well if you wanted an open relationship, there are two things that could happen: he could be okay with it: if he was, he shouldn't be upset he could not be okay with an open relationship: (which is what I'm pretty sure happened) you did something behind his back that he didn't want you to do, and you knew he didn't want honestly, if you want to be with him, talk to him. you BOTH have to accept a monogamous or open relationship, otherwise the relationship should be scrapped

[pandaninja]

did he say OK to an open relationship?

[Asker]

Ya. I did go behind his back. But I still told him. Not my fault he didn't accept it.

[Mahtaazh]

First of all, stop cheating on your boyfriend,that's a horrible thing, it's disgusting

second of all you deserve to be left

try to be a better partner next time

[Layla101]

What is there to do about this? Your question doesn't even make sense. This is what your saying.

"I cheated on my bf..what should I do?"

ummm ...learn to close your legs?

[diamond3]

that is messed up. you break up it is obvious you do not want to be with him

[dudearama]

no it's not obvious . What's obvious is she wants both sides of one coin. But it doesn't work that way... unless he's OK with an open relationship... which he isn't. Advice: Tell him you're sorry.. but you need to be in an open relationship... and if he can;t handle that you have to break up... it's just sensible... cuz I'm prety sure you won't really give up your bigamist ways...

[diamond3]

R you calling me a bigamous?

[Asker]

No. He's calling ME bigamous

[starlight124]

This is immature. If you have a boyfriend, get him to screw you not go out and find some other guy too. Cheaters get nothing, you get what you deserve.

[zachg]

well for one. stop cheating. seriously that sh*ts no good. why would you cheat in the first place?

also the ball is kind of in his court. he's the one who has to deal with the fact that you cheated since you obviously have no problem with it.

the only other thing you can really do is break it off with him

also your boyfriend deserves a damn medal for self control. if I walked in on my girlfriend cheating the other guy would leave in an ambulance after getting his face thoroughly adjusted.

[Asker]

Self control! Ha. We had to PULL him off the other guy. His face is pretty messed up. Broken nose, black eye, busted lip. I felt bad for him.

[zachg]

that's it? man your boyfriend deserves two medals. if it was me both eyes would have been blacked I would've opened at least one cheek , his nose would've been past f***ed up, his lips split and more than likely broken ribs possibly a fractured sternum seriously though. don't cheat. it's a lose lose. your boyfriend no doubt feels degrated, sad, and betrayed. and obviously the other guy got f***ed up.

[DonMichelle]

I'd do everything you said and then take away whatever dignity he has left by bumming him. He came to have sex... I'll give him sex

[zachg]

lol I don't think I'd go that far. just one beating from me and if I see him again maybe a good smack in the face.

[Eiffelgirl21]

guys...maybe he didn't even know she had a boyfriend? Just saying.

[zachg]

i'd still kick the sh*t out of him. because even if he didn't she did. and she should've told him.

[smashliee]

you are a whore. he should leave you.

[Justinefoox]

So what happened?

[kaythanksbye]

Shit happens when you're whorin' around.

[Asker]

How am I whorin around? Cause I like sex? If I want sex and I don't want it from my boyfriend than I'm going to get it from someone else.

[shamus1992]

"If I want sex and I don't want it from my boyfriend than I'm going to get it from someone else." that's whoring. if you didn't have a boyfriend it would be acceptable but WITH a boyfriend?...

[kaythanksbye]

Exactly what he said haha. It's not hard to figure out what whorin' around means.

[shamus1992]

real talk.

[Asker]

I wanted an open relationship. He didn't. I'm gOing to do what I want.

[38rakia38]

Then, you're pretty much whoring around. I'd have to agree. You know, the whole universe doesn't revolve around what you want to do. People, like your boyfriend, hopefully ex, have these things called FEELINGS. You're gonna burn a lot of bridges sweetheart, and a lot of people are going to drop you like yesterday's pile of sh*t.

[kaythanksbye]

Amen.

[Asker]

We talked and he said that he would give me one more chance. And I do want to be with him. He's going to be my REAL boyfriend. No more open relationship. I don't want him to leave me. I feel really guilty. I hurt him.

[kaythanksbye]

You sound like a normal human being now. Good.

[shamus1992]

i stll can't believe he didn't dump your ass

[Asker]

Well I want to be happy. And if that means ONLY being with him then I'll do that. That's rude I love him and he loves me.

[Eiffelgirl21]

much agreed

[the-82]

well he was smart enough to beat the other guys ass, why would you want sex from others when you have a boyfriend just break up with him and keep sleeping around your used to it by now

[Lucasred]

Give that exact statement to your boyfriend and see if he stays.

[biffyprime]

I want to give your Boyfriend a Medal for not killing him, I know I would have.

[Asker]

He broke the other guys nose. And bruised his knuckles. The other guy has got a black eye. He didn't even give the guy a chance to fight back bust started beating the cap out of him.

[shamus1992]

well I would have too, sh*t give that guy a medal

[pandaninja]

Be glad he the other guys is breathing and that he didn't turn on you too

[Asker]

He starts yelling at me too

[dave216]

It seems to me that one would be pissed at the girl. She was doing something wrong. What was the guy doing wrong? He had no commitment to her boyfriend, did he?

[Asker]

He was probably pissed because he had his d*** in his girlfriend. I get that.

[loveislost]

let them both go. and next time don't cheat. you where probably embarrassed because of how stupid you felt for cheating. it would be smart not to feel that way again don't you think? not to be rude or mean and I'm really sorry if it comes out that way.

[aamir]

I think he should leave you, find a better girl and you would learn from your mistakes...

[CuckoldMePlease]

Date a cuckold

[massaphekt]

i think you are a bitch and that guy is lucky to know your real motive

[Anonymous]

kys u worthless disgusting piece of shit

you fucking slut, drink bleach you worthless failed aborted piece of shit

ill say it again, kill yourself bitch. die

[Anonymous]

Skank. You don't deserve him with your nasty p**** you bitch

[Anonymous]

So did the guy you were f**king come all over your bf? How close was he when you were so rudely interrupted? And who is better in bed? I'm guessing your mom heard the ruckus and came up to see you buck naked with a dripping snatch and your boyfriend beating up a guy with a hard c0ck?

Wait, no, probably not. Seeing as how none of this actually happened. And that you're probably a dude and all.

[kgrrl2323]

i totally agree with this guy too many loose ends

[Anonymous]

why would you do that in the first place? its over, it was selfish of you to do that in the first place so really you don't even deserve to be in a relationship with him..

[Anonymous]

youre just dumb. and you're moms dumb for not knowing who you have over. why are you having sex if you're under 18 anyways. I assume you're in school. you're just going to be known as a whore now.

[Anonymous]

Not be a wh're

[Anonymous]

check yourself into the bunny ranch

[Anonymous]

he should have beat the crap out of you! I hope he leaves you. you deserve that

[Anonymous]

He should have beat you up instead. But if the guy you hooked up with was a guy that knew you had a boyfriend then you both should get beat up.

[Asker]

The guy new. Why would I keep it a secret?

[Opinion Owner]

Some women would keep it a secret because there are men out there that have strong morals (such as myself) and wouldn't hookup with a woman that has a boyfriend. Also Karma is a b*tch so I wouldn't do something like that. And I'm sure Eminem wouldn't do that. Why did you hookup with this other guy?

[themastaplan]

why would you keep a secret? I bet your ex boyfriend is asking the same question...the real questiopn should be why can't I be faithful and keep my dirty ass legs closed...u stupid bitch I have no sympothy for you

[Eiffelgirl21]

haha funny you brought up Eminem! You sound like my boyfriend!

[Anonymous]

if love to you is banging a bunch of different men while you have a boyfriend, then you need help

[Asker]

Why?

[Eiffelgirl21]

why? why? do you need help? Oh honey! Where did you come from? You should ask your boyfriend the same question...Why is it wrong to have sex with other guys...wow.