My boyfriend comes too fast.

[Scandal]

when my boyfriend and I started having sex he would last for about a minute or two but he was always up for round two and three right after that. and he would last for quite a while during rounds 2 and 3. Now he last for about a minute and he can't get hard for round two, sometimes he needs like 6 hours and other times he needs almost a full day before he can stay hard enough to have sex again. We do a lot of foreplay and after play and he always gets me to orgasm so that's not a problem, I just love the feel of his penetration and want it to last longer. any suggestions?

[govhuck2]

i bet he can get hard for round two, but he isn't that into you sexually anymore. Promise him something, if he gets it up for round two and lasts a long time, something like you'll swallow, or give him head tomorrow, wear something sexy, etc.. You are going to have to get him to come at least once so that he can last longer the second time, or you can by desensitization spray at a sex shop or online, just a few sprays on his erect penis and he will be able to last much longer, I've tried that and it worked, but he might not be able to come if he puts too much on.

[Scandal]

1. uh when we go out to dinner we sometimes have to sit there for a minute after we pay so he can lose his boner. I promise you hun, he's very sexually attracted to me. 2. He doesn't want me to swallow. he thinks it is gross and wouldn't want to kiss me after. 3. he gets plently of head. even road head. i'm sexy. I don't need sexy clothes but I do occasionaly throw on some pasties. 4. I don't want to desenitiz his penis! I want him to be able to feel it!

[govhuck2]

if he has no problem getting it up, then why can't he go for round 2? You might want to ask him that. The spray won't stop him from feeling it, it will only reduce the sensation, but on a the positive side, he will be able to pound away without worrying about coming, it is actually fun, because I bet he wishes he could last longer too, try it, I bet you'll be pleased, and so will he. good luck, and I bet you are sexy and good in bed, but sometimes guys want variety.

[sunseeker11]

use a **** strap , it is usually adjustable and raps around his balls and top of his cock, this will let the blood flow in and now out as easily so he will be harder and not let his come out easily too even though he orgasms, and you can use anal beads on him, when he is about to come pull them out slowly and it will take away the come sensation for a moment longer untill he can't help blow his load

[sarcasticbella]

have him come first with oral/masturbation then try to have sex after, if he can get it back up. If nothing works, see a doctor, he may have a problem because I've never heard of someone needing as long as 6hrs to have sex again

[Scandal]

he can get hard after an orgasm whether oral or self masturbation but he can't keep it for very long

[sarcasticbella]

when that happens to my boyfriend he just takes it out and uses his hand for a few secs until its hard again then puts it back in. Or maybe if you try him not having any sexual contact for a week

[Scandal]

he can't get hard again with his hand and if we took away sexual contact for a week he would literally probably come before he even got it in me

[sarcasticbella]

then id definitely suggest he see a doctor. Maybe they can give him a drug that will help or suggest a diet change or something

[darlanoy0510]

You on top. Control the penetration and speed.

[Scandal]

he comes A LOT faster when I'm on top

[sunseeker11]

i love it when a girl is on top

[darlanoy0510]

Wow I have to say he is very inexperienced if he can control his cum. Don't worry the more practice he have the more slower he'll come. I used to date this guy he can go on for a long time which mean he is a whore.lol

[That-Guy]

if he's doing the humping, couldn't he just stop and restart?

[Brandan_Cromartie]

Tell him to see a doctor. He might have circulatory problems actually; this sounds drastically abnormal.

[sunmonster]

Wow that's not good. Was he a virgin when you met him? When did he lose his virginity? The more sex you have the longer you last.

[Scandal]

Ya we are each others first. he lost it about 7-8 months ago. he's 21 I'm 20

[sunmonster]

That's why! He's really inexperienced. Oy, I feel like a whore now, I lost my virginity at 12... D:

[Brandan_Cromartie]

I doubt it's inexperience. At his age he should quickly recover; 6 hours is a HUGE refractory period even for an older man.

[sunmonster]

That part is a little weird. Being so young he should be able to recover in a couple hours at most.

[Anonymous]

Just tell him to stop when he feels like he's about to blow and then start again as soon as the feeling passes. For me if I stop for 10-30 seconds the feeling like I'm about to come goes away and I can go another few minutes.