My boyfriend complains about my weight a alot?

Question

for starters I'm 5'4,119 pounds and I do strength training along with Yoga,but my boyfriend constantly complains about my weight and tells me I need to lose weight.It makes me feel really self conscious when he wants to have sex with me,I feel awkward.So am I fat?Do I need to lose weight?what should I do?Have a workout plan you can give me?How much should I weigh?Guys how much would you prefer your girlfriend to weight?Thanks!

lovelife11 · Accepted Answer

Why are you still dating him? what an ass hole! you are so skinny.. you shouldn't put yourself through the misery of dating a guy like that. The ideas he puts in your head about the way you "should" look will stick in your mind for a long time and they will be hard to overcome! For example, any time you have sex in the future, you are gonna be super worried that you look fat all because of that boyfriend you had that made you feel bad about yourself... anyway, point is be careful who you surround yourself with because you will start to see things the way they do... the way he is seeing your body is not realistic. My sister is 5'5 125 lbs and people are always telling her how tiny she is... and trust me, she is little! sounds like he has major problems or a fetish for bones ;)

frecklefaced · Accepted Answer

I don't really think to the problem is you, maybe its your boyfriend. I man who tries to make you live up to his "ideals," obviously isn't mature enough to have a girlfriend. I'm 5'3 and a half and 120 pounds. My boyfriend likes me how I am. My close friend is 5'10 and 155 and her boyfriend loves her how she is.

Guys all have different "dream girls." He doesn't dersevre you hun

peace-love-couture · Accepted Answer

-30-60 minutes of cardio a day;running,jogging,speed walking,dancing,aerobics,bicycling,anything that gets your heart racing.

-2-3 days of strength training a week;resistance training,weight training,pilates,yoga(although slow results)

Eh,guys will never be happy with girls bodies

Koncieved · Accepted Answer

You're doing strength training along with yoga, so I can assume you're in decent shape. At 5'4, 119 pounds, giving you a BMI of 20.4. You're closer to being underweight than you are overweight. You're probably in better shape than most women. He's lucky to have you, he's just ignorant, either break up with him or educate him a little. If he refuses to be educated and chooses to be obdurate, start complaining about his weight. Tell him he's too small and needs to pack on more muscle, tell him he's soft and flabby. After all that, break up with him.

snackeyg · Accepted Answer

I'd prefer you to weigh more than that actually, but I'd be happy the way you are. I wouldn't complain. You need to get rid of him.

eithyy · Answer

Dump the bastard. You deserve better. Also, you're at a perfectly healthy weight for your height. The healthy range for a BMI is 18.5-24.9 and yours is 20.4, so be proud of it. You're more in shape than a lot of other people.

saphirasilverwings · Answer

That's ridiculous! Your weight is completely normal! If you weighed much less you'd be unhealthily thin. Tell him to be more realistic and mind his own business! Honestly I'd never stay with a guy who said that to me.

Urbanpunk · Answer

whoa whoa whoa, that is not right, you need to tell him to stop being a d***, the problem is him not you

WavyCherry · Answer

Dump that asshat.

Oddjob · Answer

How ever much yor boyfriend weighs, that's how much weight you need to lose.

carlstatlin · Answer

He sound super great.  next time you guys have sex you should tell him his penis needs to be bigger.

Kya014 · Answer

dump his sorry ass. I'm about the same height and weight and every guy I've hung out with says I have a bangin body...dont listen to him

Anonymous · Answer

119 Ibs is perfect for someone your height.  He probably has problems, I wouldn't put up with his verbal abuse.  Find someone who treats you like you deserve to be treated.  And I don't blame you for not wanting to have sex with him.  Who seriously wants to have sex with someone who just called them fat!?!?  Do people really not now you can't say this kind of stuff?  Sorry, doing a little venting on your page :)