My boyfriend doesn't like my blowjobs?

I did it only 5 times for him, I'm 18 and never did it before, But I'm pretty depressed , since I can't do it right.. I try a lot ,i watched how they do it in p*rn, he said it's too slow, or he feels my teeth sometimes . But I can't open my mouth more, and it's too hard to do it faster . And when I try something else like licking and kissing him, he said I have to improve technique .. Maybe my mouth is too small? or teeth too big? I would like a lot to be good, but I'm bad . And knowing that his ex girlfriend could do it very good makes me only more depressed.. I just don't know what to do? :(
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  • "he said I have to improve technique" Seems kind of unfeeling to criticize in this tone. Also to compare you to an ex. He sounds like a punk to me.

    If you look at Japanese AV (search for "Japanese Blowjob" in xhamster) you will see a common technique which is for your mouth to stay high (to just below the collar of the cap) sucking, bobbing and tongue swirling, and stroking the shaft rapidly with a moderate grip. Your mouth and teeth issues will be minimized and you won't get tired and the hand action will enhance your BJ and put him over the top. Slow way down (but don't stop or pull off) when he comes.

  • First of all, your boyfriend is an insensitive d***head.

    Second, the teeth thing you can battle by covering them with your lips, rolling them inwards.

    Third, your boyfriend is a selfish d***head. It's supposed to be fun for both. If you enjoy taking it slow then so be it. He should be glad he is getting one.

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  • He compared you to his ex? lol, what a jerk for doing that.

    Anyways, you have to ask him what he likes. You're not a mind reader! Communication is absolutely key :)

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  • I don't like fellatio. My penis is feels much better in the vagina.

  • Can you name any other activity in your life, which you mastered in less than 5 attempts?

    Stop punishing yourself. You're a beginner. You need to improve technique? Then work on it. And don't expect instant perfection.