Well my ex's thought the same thing, Her boyfriend left her for his pocket...well you get the point.
So she figured if I masturbated it was like cheating on her, I didn't buy it and tried to sell the idea it isn't so I didn't. It didn't really effect me too much because I didn't do it too often but the idea of my actions being limited didn't really sit well with me. People feel insecure about themselves when they see their lovers/crushes enjoying the opposite.
For example: if there was a guy you had a crush on, but he preferred a blond over a brunette and your a brunette, wouldn't you feel insecure if he was talking to a beautiful blonde? Its the same logic of thinking, people get over jealous if someone likes something they are insecure about. I hear how some guys don't like it if a girl watches a p*rn with a black guy or a guy with a bigger tool then he will begin to think he's inferior to them and not pleasing/appealing enough to you.
To wrap it up, yes he's being unreasonable but it can be worked on.No there's nothing wrong with a girl masturbation, rarely, occasionally or often. It doesn't matter, he needs to realize its your body and your with him and not to let his insecurities get the best of him.0 1 0 0I'm trying to hold on to the hope that this is a joke, and that there are no men from my generation that are this stupid and small minded. On the off chance that this is serious, I will say that it is entirely unreasonable. For me, one of my big turnons is a girl who will reach down there and help me help her. My theory is that a woman who orgasms is a woman who says 'yes'.
A woman who masturbates is better at getting off. I've been told that orgasm is a skill for women. It seems odd to me; my first orgasm was an accident, but I suppose I can believe it. Also, with the exception of offending his insecurities, it's not doing any harm to anyone. I can't imagine trying to tell someone that she can't do something she enjoys when it isn't hurting anyone, or shouldn't be hurting anyone. And about the d***s: I'm sure you have already figured this out, but it probably has more to do with the size of the d***s than the fact that they are d***s. He sounds like he has a lot of old school insecurities.0 0 0 0
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No, there's nothing wrong with a girl masturbating that much.
As I would tell a guy in this situation, masturbation is private and he/she isn't your parent. Just don't let the person know you masturbate
I masturbate every day and I watch p*rn while doing so I would never quit just because a partner asks me to.
If my partner wants to be insecure, fine, but don't let your insecurity affect me.2 1 0 1u would never quit because you can't - your a man. but women are different we don't need to masturbate if we are getting fulfilled. she is not being satisfied by her "man" if she needs to do that. just my opinion.
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If you are with your man regular you should cut down on mastuerbating. isn't he taking care of you? if you need more, ask him. a real man will step up and take care of his business. When I'm around my boo I don't masturbate. when he's away, maybe. But my opinion is that if you need to do that even when he is around then he is not being a man.
0 0 0 0I would say that that's unreasonable. How you choose to touch your own body is your own business. It's one thing for a person to not want their partner having sex with other people. It's entirely different to feel uncomfortable about them masturbating. Perhaps ask him how he would feel if you requested that of him.
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3 9it's funny because normally it's the girl asking the guy not to do that, but in your case it's the opposite. I don't think it's a bad thing because it's not like your doin anything with someone else. It is harmless.
1 0 0 0Its an unreasonable request and he needs to grow up! Does he masturbate? What does he madturbate to?
0 0 0 0Masturbate in front of him once. If he doesn't want you to watch p*rn, tell him you want to record him with you and he never has to watch it.
0 0 0 0find a lover so you can legitimatly tell him that you arnt masterbating when he asks
0 0 0 1He's a doofus.
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