My boyfriend doesn't take off my bra.. why?

The guys that I've hooked up with in the past have been eager to take off my bra - it's usually the first thing they do. However, my boyfriend does not. I once took it off myself when we were getting it on and he seemed into it, but then a few days later he again neglected to take it off and I feel awkward we're both naked apart from my bra still on.. Could anyone explain this?
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  • As Betwyn said, maybe he isn't into breasts. As hard as *I* find that to believe personally, I have had both guys and girls tell me that they (or their boyfriend) isn't into breasts and basically ignores them. These guys DO exist, apparently.

    For me, if a girl is wearing a bra when we start, it's my mission in life to get it off ASAP. Her keeping it on is a total deal-breaker. My Girlfriend knows this, and usually isn't even wearing one when I come over.

  • He's probably just doesn't know how to unhook a bra and is afraid to look like a fool trying. I know I never unhook her bra, I just shove my hands inside of it and slide the cups off her t*ts until she just decides to reach back and take it off.

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  • Mabe he isn't into breasts.. so if you take it off... He'll fake it for you.. but left to him.. it stays on...

    I know a guy that doesn't like breasts...

    Loves thighs and stomachs and belly buttons tho...

  • He might not really know how to take it off. Some guys really struggle trying to get the hooks apart. He probably just doesn't want to embarrass himself if he does try to take it off.

    • Good point!

    • some bras I feel are designed somehow to only be taken off by the woman wearing them and no on else for real

    • Haha. What do you mean?

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  • That's pretty odd, I can't wait to rip that off.

  • He probably finds it attractive to see your boobs

    bounce while inside your Bra. I'm not gonna lie

    there has been times when I like to leave the Bra

    on my girl on (but only for a short period of time)

  • Yeah, if he's young, he probably isn't very good at undoing the clasp, and doesn't want to look like an idiot.

    Rather than show him how to do it though and make him feel like more of an idiot, next time pull it off over your head so he can see it doesn't necessarily have to be undone first.

    That's my best guess. Either that or he has a fetish for bras...that somehow overrides his natural fetish for naked boobies!

    :-D

  • he knew what was going on underneath ;\