Is he a diabetic? that can cause it at an early age in men. I hope he will go see his doctor. If not for you-his self esteem. He will want to have a good sex life with some one-even if you decide not to stick around. No judgement here-but he needs to realize that this just isn't going to go away. it may be just phycological--performance anxiety-but some viagra will help either way. I would give him the chance to get help first. viagra will help a man even if he can achieve an erection any way-by letting him go multiple times and encreasing stamina-i will be praying for yall
thanks hunny =] I really appreciate that...i'm trying to get him to talk about it more so I can help :/
buy him L-Arginine(and amino acid that turns into nitric oxid, which causes erections in men) and Protlatis(it works and gives a guy a major stiffie and prolongs sex...way safer than viagra) from your local GNC (vitamin store) make him swallow a few pills and wait 30 minutes.
he could also have stress/anxiety/depression...if he does that needs to be worked on. could be performance anxiety...lots of things cause Erectile dysfunction. ask him if he wakes up from sleep with erections. if he does his penis is working mechanically so it could be all in his mind. lots of websites you can look up to get more detailed info.
if that's not something you want to put up with and deal with than leave him for another guy. when you get old your gonna have a guy whos not gonna be able to get it up anyways so at one point your just gonna have to deal with it which SUCKS!1
If the man loves you--There are pills and as a last resort-a penile prosthetic pump that can be inserted in the penis to retain sexual function. I love -my fiance -and would do that for her before I would let her go unsatisfied. just my un asked for 2 cents-haha
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I wouldn't know about it but couldn't he take pills for that or something?
he gets all angry when I suggest we go to the doctors or he takes pills? :(
Ok well... that's more his fault then for not accepting help.
At his age it's likely psychological and no pill will fix that.
Not wrong, but karma IS a m-fer.
well I have no sexual problem with myself...and I wouldn't wish an exual disorders on anyone...but how can I stay with him unhappy and being forced to wanna have sex with him...:(
I didn't say you should stay with him. I said karma's a m-fer. :D As you sow, so shall you reap.
so stay with him and be sad and crying...and be forced to keep doin him cause I still love hima nd never have satsfying sex...thts already messed up ..idk hw it could get worse
If you aren't happy, leave him. I got to be honest. If I were him, I'd probably commit suicide. ED it such a young age... that's sad. He should see a doctor/take viagra.
ya he and I are just 20...i really wish he told me earlier before I got into the elationship with him...i tried talking to him about seeing a doctor but he keeps getting angry at me and storming off or yelling at me :S
Tell him you'll leave him if he doesn't see a doctor. I understand his ego is crushed, but he should do something about it. Mabye it's psychological. Does he get night time erections/morning erections? If so, it's probably psychological. Physical causes of ED --> he needs to swallow pills. If he doesn't see a doctor, it isn't wrong to end it with him.
If he won't accept going to the doctor for it then it's not wrong to end it.
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