My boyfriend has nude pics of girls' boobs on his phone? I've told him it hurts but I don't know if he cares?

my boyfriend has nude pics on his phone I've told him it hurts it seems like he doesn't care he said I shouldn't worry about it. but it just brings up bad thoughts
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  • You should tell him that if the pics mean so much to him that he can't even delete them off his phone, then he can live without you. He's being insensitive... how would he feel if you knowingly lusted after other guys around him. Fair enough, everyone is entitled to be visually attracted to someone even when they're in a relationship (you don't go blind when you start dating) but he's basically rubbing it in your face. If he has any respect for you, he'll do it. If not, then finish with him, because if he can't take something that's relatively simple seriously then what else can't he manage?

  • I understand your stance and do agree. However, if they're on his phone then how do you have access to them? Is he putting nude pics as his wallpaper? He needs to be a little bit more mature about it and consider your feelings. Maybe he can erase them, put them in a hidden folder or transfer them to a PC. I don't think they need to be right out in the open.

    • They weren't out in the open he was taken pics of me then he was going through them and I saw them,

  • Well a guy I was dating told me I could see is phone you know look at his pictures and what not and I saw pic of a girl without her shirt on and before I could say anything he said to me sorry and basically begged for me not to be mad and so if he doesn't say sorry and delete it he isn't worth it. A boys a boy.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I agree with ArtistBboy. If he doesn't have the decency to delete nude pictures of other girls, and dismisses you when you confront him, DUMP HIM. He has no respect for you or your wishes, he doesn't deserve you. You should never go unheard in a relationship, and with such a blatant disregard and disrespect as this, I say leave the loser. Let him go play with his pictures and miss out on a real girl, the one he doesn't notice right next to him, YOU! Find someone that will respect you and your wishes.

  • Then dump him. There's nothing you have to subject yourself in order to be in a relationship.

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    ArtistBBoy

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  • He told you that you shouldn't worry about it? That' just messed up! That's unloyal and unfaithful to you; your his girlfriend for crying out loud! You need to be stern about this and tell him it hurts; don't cry in front of him and be serious about this. Try to restrain your emotions. He needs to understand that having pictures of boobs on his phone is just perverted. If he was single; what the heck. But he isn't. If he doesn't change; you shouldn't have to deal with this. Really.

    • Ya I know I told him it hurts he just said they were just forwards that he was going to forward to another guy nut I don't know this is like the 2nd time I can't leave him cause other then that he's a terrific guy

    • Yeah...well tell him to not allow his friends forward these inappropriate pictures to him. I am not sure you are being stern about this because it seems like he's brushing this off. Show some emotion then. Make sure he knows it upsets you. Truthfully if he was that terrific guy, wouldn't he consider your feelings too and wouldn't he want to make you happy?

  • I'm sure he's just using them to masterbate like ALL guys do!!!

  • Yeah it seems like your boyfriend cares more about other girl's boobs than your feelings. I would dump his ass for even telling me that I shouldn't worry about it. He is not taking any consideration for how you feel. Seriously this guy sounds like a douche. He probably plans on adding your nudes to that collection. Trust me I have a lot of guy friends, this guy is a douche not worth dating.