My boyfriend has a really small penis...?

I'm not trying to be shallow, I guess I'm just surprised. I love him a lot, so this isn't a deal breaker, but we finally got to 3rd base today in his bed, and when I finally grabbed it, I literally couldn't help but laugh at it's size (mentally I mean). It's literally about 4 inches maximum, and not wide in girth at all :/ He's very very attractive, amazing body, and the sweetest guy ever, but now I'm just kind of worried that this could affect our sex life. :P He's a virgin by the way. What to do?
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It was hard, so yes I'm pretty sure it was erect
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Hmm. Well I guess you should wait until you have sex with him. Sometime's a smaller guy can please you more and vice versa. If you love him then that shouldn't matter as long as you enjoy sex with him. Maybe think of taking it to the next level. 4 is small but its enough to please a girl.

  • If he's 18 he still might have some growing to do. I hate to tell you this, but it's not THAT small. I guess you just have to form a mental block on size and focus more on the fact that it's a penis.

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  • 4 inches hard or soft ? 5 and a half inches is average...But not to worry...If you love him...he'll totally love the way you can give head because you'll be able to swallow the whole thing...If a guy is TOO big, he can't get a decent blowjob...Don't worry about it. Just love him.

  • Even if you think it looks kinda funny, do you still find it sexy?

    • He's sexy in general. :) It was just a mild shock :p

    • Yeah yeah but the penis itself, I mean, do you get something out of it? Cos, 4" is supposedly all you need for a good f***, get your g-spot and everything. So if you can learn to enjoy it aesthetically it shouldn't be a problem, aha. I have a preference for 4 inchers, you know =] So, in some circles, you're with a very desirable man!

    • I read that the G-Spot doesn't exist...

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  • Well your pretty much SOL then :D

  • time to be sexually frustrated,SIZE MATTERS!

  • theres not much you can do.

    am not really big down there but my girlfriend is happy with it.

    am sure he can make it work for you hunni

  • Are you sure he was erect? This sounds impossible. XD

    • Yes he was! Lol, I've never been with a guy that small. Let's say it is possible ha ha x)

    • well, if it is possible , then it is extremely rare to be that small when erect.

    • Theres such a thing as a 'micropenis', doesn't even grow to an inch when fully erect. Matter of centimetres, like. It's not as much of an anomaly as you might think, I think.

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  • well now know what its like for the girl...

  • Why is that such a bad thing? You've never even had sex with him yet how could you be so mean :|

  • doesn't sound like it was erect.

    • sucks for you then.

  • Usually smaller penises grow more when erect than bigger ones do.

    • Maybe he wasn't fully erect, it could have been a possibility. There's always supplements and bigger doesn't always mean more pleasure. How good he is in bed can be completely independent of the fact.

  • how old is he? maybe he'll grow up some

    • We're both 18, I don't know if he's done growing down there :p