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My Boyfriend hates giving me oral ? Help

My boyfriend says he likes p**** but hates the taste and I no it's not that nice but I eat healthy and I'm really hygiene and stuff I try everything to make it better since he tried it and he hated it . He admits when he gets really horny he just wants to but he hates it and it hurt at first but I thought I would get used to it . But I can't get the feeling out of my head it was amazing and it was like a few licks ! I crave it so bad and I pointed out that I always give him head and he could at least give it another go and he was dead against it . I didn' t like head at first but still did it and grew to love it ! Are all boys like this ? And what do I do I told him how I feel and how I crave it but he just not helping me out . But when I want to get a sex toy that will give me the same sort of pleasure he was dead against it ! Am I being silly but it seems unfair girls do you agree ? I give him head and long ones however he wants , I'm really open minded I ask for one try and he won't ! And it's begining to piss me off now
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Not sure why you are letting this non-p*ssy eating jerk tell you if you can get a sex toy or not!

    I guess it's his mouth, so it is his decision not to go down on you -- and his own fault for not knowing what he's missing -- but what gives him the right to tell you that you can't buy your own vibrator?

    Heck, I think you should get one that's bigger than he is (even if you don't really want to use it) and tell him that he can't satisfy you with his tongue, and now that you've had a dildo that big, he can't really satisfy you with his c*ck either!

    Okay, so is that a little mean?

  • the first time I tried it, it was gross to me. but eventually, like with you to him, I grew to like it.

    he's probably just so preoccupied with the stigma about it that he isn't giving it a fair shake.

    just express how good it is for you and how much you love it when he does that. He should seriously get over it and do it

Most Helpful Girls

  • So he's against giving you oral, is against sex toys but he's still happy receiving BJ from you? I say stop giving it so regularly and let's see how he feels.

    If he doesn't enjoy oral then you can't expect him to do something he dislikes, but then he needs to be open to other ways he can please you. If he's not doing that then he doesn't deserve any.

  • your boyfriend is an ass, I dump guys that refuse to return favors because I keep everything clean and I give the best oral ever. Some guys are douches period, he should stop being so selfish and he would return favors if he did give a rats ass about you.

  • It seems unfair to me! I know it sounds childish, but if a guy does that to me, I would stop giving him head! Seriously why do you have to do that while he refuses to do the same for you ?

    • I hate playing those kind of trading games when it comes to sex, but I agree he's being childish... so I guess you're probably right.

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  • if I was you, I wouldn't give him head until he gave ate me out. why should he get all the pleasure in the relationship? make some sort of deal with him. and if he still doesn't want to eat you out you should tell him you have a right to get pleasure from sextoys!

    • oops I meant say *at me out ... not 'gave ate my out'

  • No, it isn't unfair.

    Giving oral sex doesn't not mean he's obligated to give it to you.

    And if you could enjoy receiving oral sex knowing he dislikes giving it than it says a lot about your character and shows you're no more "selfish" than he is.

    Deal with it and accept it or decide whether it's a deal breaker

    I think it's immature that he is against a sex toy, but tell him it'll provide the pleasure he isn't giving you.

  • Change your diet. Eating lots of pineapple is often recommended...

    • I do I eat it in front of him and he still won't even consider it :/

    • So he just tried it one time, didn't like it, and now he's decided he's never doing it again, regardless of what you try? That's just unacceptable IMO. It's like a little kid being fussy about food - tell him to man up!

    • Oh trust me I have . I asked him again and was like at least give it another go and if you still don't like it I will leave you be and he looked at me and was like no and I just was like man the f*** up honestly ! I'm just getting fed up now

  • He needs to get his head around it (pardon the pun). You give him oral and he should do the same. It may help him to do it in the shower or just after the shower, but it's mostly just in his head.

  • Flavored lubricants?

  • In my opinion, the only men who don't love puss, are gay men.

    But leaving that aside, he should have absolutely no say in whether or not you get a sex toy for yourself. If he tries to control you on that level, he's an insecure prick, and you should dump him.

  • He is unfair and please it can't taste bad it just a little thing to Lick you do much harder work, just Tell him sorry I can't give you head anymore and I have the right to get My toy :P

  • Can you feel me in one what toy gives you that pleasure I'm in the same situation

  • stop giving him bj's until he goes down on you

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