My boyfriend and I haven't had sex in nearly 3 weeks.

[Anonymous]

At first it was really frustrating for me, because I want it but he doesn't. I can't figure out why he doesn't want to have sex with me anymore and I'm afraid if I ask him, he'll just get mad at me. Am I not as good as he needs me to be? Is he not attracted to me? Am I too annoying lately?

[janelov]

You really need to ask him... we can only speculate here. But I am guessing you don't arouse him anymore ... most guys lose interest in girls because the sparks just goes away after awhile... in every relationship you have to work to keep that spark, now you have to find a way to get it back but first you need to find out what's on his mind by asking him what's going on. Don't be afraid to get into a little argument with him, it's worthy in this case. Maybe ask him after New Year's, you don't want to spoil your day or his... good luck.

[Aussielad]

trust me hun, you have to ask him, it will be worth the argument if it sorts out year troubles, otherwise you can stay quiet and slowly drift apart... happy new year sweety... almost