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My boyfriend hit me because I did not want to have sex.
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earlier tonight was over at my boyfriends house we were sitting on his couch and we started kissing. he went to slip my pants off and I told him not tonight. honestly its just not a good time of the month to have sex and I feel icky and wasn't in the mood. he didn't like that. he started yelling at me telling that I'm a selfish whore and only care about myself. I was going to do other things with him than sex but he began this fit before any of that could happen. I got up to leave and he grabbed my arm. when I turned around to yell at him to let me go he slapped me so hard he drew blood from my lip. we were both shocked that this happened and he let me go. I grabbed my purse and ran to my car and left. this has never happened before and I don't know what to do, advice?
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What Girls & Guys Said
15 21You should dump his ass, but something tells me you don't because if you do, you might think he will seek revenge on you in an assaulting way, you should press charges against him too
I'm with Golden Dragon...you have to ask what to do? you don't just know what to do? : /
You should leave him. He's just seeing you for sex, and doesn't even care about your emotions.
Leave him
He's an a**hole. You should never see him again. If you do, you will just be asking to be abused again, and next time may be worse.. Guys who hit women will do it again.
You should totally stay with him. He only hit you because he loves you and is really really attracted to you. Talk it out with him and apologize for making him hit you and give him another chance.
Are you f***ing kidding me? Hahaha WOW. Did you get hit by a semi as a child?
I'm pretty sure she's being sarcastic.
Honestly you never know these days. And a situation like this isn't laughable. At all.
solid advice. she really might have had it coming
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Since you are asking on here for advice, I would like to know what happened according to him before making any rash decisions. Were either of you drinking or using any other drugs? I would want to know what your relationship is like and how you got along before this. did you argue with each other a lot? did you complain about him not having sex with you enough or anything similar?
Not to excuse hitting girls but if he has never done anything like this before then there is no guarantee that is who he is. He could have been under some kind of stress or emotional problems that made him act like that. If you haven't talked to him since this then there is no way to know how he feels about it. It is possible that he is sitting alone crying feeling like killing himself.
only you know what you should do
i would like to get his side of the story before I pass much judgement.
you needing to ask for advice here signals that something isn't quite right about this whole situation.
so how is life going?
He shouldn't have hit you. It's never okay to hit anyone. You telling him no is not a reason for him to get mad. He's your boyfriend, he should respect your wish to not have sex that night. If you're telling him no to sex all the time, then it's understandable for him to get upset. Guys want sex. But getting upset doesn't give him the right to hit you. I don't care how sorry he is or how bad he feels. You should leave him, for two reasons: he got mad because you didn't want to have sex, which shows his lack of respect for you and two, he hit you. He hit you over something stupid and small. I understand you think "it was just one time and he won't hit me again", but if he's wiling to hit you over this, imagine what will happen when he gets mad about something serious.
Blackkid2 is an a**hole, by the way. Don't listen to him.
The obvious thing to do is break up.
You don't know what to do? Um, for starters, how about calling the cops and filing a restraining order against him?
If nothing else at least call the police. It's called "Domestic Violence".