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My boyfriend likes big boobs and I have small, what to do?

He haven't seen my boobs yet, and in bra it looks a little bigger than it is, I also know what to wear that it seems to be bigger. We were friends before and he told me few times that he loves big boobs in girl, that he is crazy about it. I know I will have to show him mine , and I don't want disappoint him, I am afraid about this because I have B cup only:( Should I tell him that it's not big before showing to not make him disappointed? or maybe we should break up and he could find girl with bigger breast? Tell me honestly.
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  • First of all, don't wear push up bras and fake what you have. My boyfriends ex had HUGE boobs and I was really insecure when we got together because I'm a B myself and I felt like he wouldn't be content with that. Wow was I wrong! He absoloutely adores them, he says they're so much more sensitive to touch and he loves the way it turns me on. He always comments on them and tells me he loves them, I have to hold him back! lol. Big boobs sag anyway, smaller ones stay perky which is much more attractive for guys ;D

    Be proud of what you have, that is the most attractive trait you could have.There is so much more to a relationship than b**bs, and if he can't understand that then he isn't right for you!

    • ...my boobs don't sag & I have Ds. just saying. And OK if you think you'll still have perky breasts when you're old lol

    • Sorry I didn't mean that to offend! I was generalising sorry :) Just saying they tend to stay perkier for longer but that's not always the case of course :) Just trying to show the pros of small boobs to help this young lady feel better about herself x

    • @saltycheeks you probably got no ass

  • there's nothing you need to tell him. if he doesn't like your boobs as they are then act accordingly and don't show them to him lol

    if he breaks up with you over that then he obviously didn't like you that much (not trying to be harsh but if this is the case then you're better of without him and you can try to find someone who legit likes you)

  • A guy who would break up with a girl over having small t*ts is rather shallow and you could probably do a lot better.

Most Helpful Guys

  • He may have some abstract preference but that does not mean that he does not find you to be beautiful just the way that you are.

    If he does have some expectation that a woman can't be perfectly beautiful with smaller breasts then he has an immature and unfortunate world-view.

    Don't be disparaging of yourself, don't appologize to him for your percieved inadequacy. Be confident and feel beautiful- he will respond in kind.

    Plus, if he's dating you he must be excited and attracted to you. I don't think that he's going to be easily disappointed.

  • How should a man with a small penis handle a similar situation with a woman who prefers big penises?

    You're a woman, what would you suggest? Then take your own advice.

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  • Look at Asian women. Many of them are notorious for being very small breasted, if any at all, along with bony butts. Yet this NEVER seems to have any adverse affect on their ability to gain men. How? Simple: what they lack in butt and chest, they more than make up for it with other skills and traits such as slim bodies, tantalizing eyes, goddess-like skin and the ability to pamper their men; a skill dying out with western women. The point I am making is that if they can do it, so can you.

    Solution? If he makes a big deal about your boobs, dump him and find someone else. However, if you shove your boobs in his face in an invitation to suckle on them like a lamprey, a man usually won't care the first. Food is food as the saying goes and men are all about food, sleep, hobbies and sex.

    Have fun

  • There's nothing small or wrong about B cup breasts. If he's really into you, then he should have no problem enjoying what you have. However, if he gripes about it and suggests getting implants (or something equally stupid) then I'd suggest getting rid of him and finding a mature person instead.

    Also, I hope that you're comfortable with your bustline and that you'll never EVER get implants. I know women who've gotten them and years later they're still miserable...

  • If he won't accept you for what you have then break it off with him. I wouldn't even consider getting implants because of how frail relationships are in general.

    Sure I like big boobs too but if I was in love with a woman with B cups, that is good too. :)

  • Get some silicone breast implants and deal done!

    Don't you wish them bigger too?

    It's 21th Century!

  • Yeah you should tell him...most guys don't care that much but if it is that important then he should go find a female with big breasts..exasperates me though as I prefer smaller...(:

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