My boyfriend of five years is depriving me from sex?

I have never been so horney in my life. My boyfriend was gone for ten days and every day I masturbated...he got home today and I was ready to go but he said he didn't feel like that and went to bed. What do I do I am so horny and I have never cheated on him and I never will.but sometimes I don't know what to do...I have needs! What should I donow? He knows I am horney he just doesn't care
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  • It sounds like he may just tired from his trip and needs some time to unwind. It isn't like he came home and decided to leave you all alone as he went back out to hang out with the guys. All he did was go to bed.

    Despite the myth about guys wanting sex all the time, the truth is sometimes we just are not in the mood. If this was a regular thing then you would have a reason to be upset with him, but no man or woman should feel the need to have sex every single time that their partner wants to. There needs to be some give and take on both sides. There will come a day when he is in the mood and you don't feel like it. It won't mean that you don't care.

    I have never met a woman that always had sex with her husband, EVERY single time he wanted it. If you do find a woman that will, let me know. ;-)

  • As one of the answers said, he could have had some while he was gone..

    I do not think this is always the truth though. Some guys just don't always want to have sex, but feel more compelled to do it because their girlfriend wants to...if they have an ounce of selfishness they may just not want to and wont. I don't think he is purposefully withholding sex from you...just get off on your own for now...and maybe he will come around in a day or two

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  • Sounds like he may be cheating because guys need sex and crave it so if he's not getting it from you then he may be getting it from somewhere else. I think you need to come right out and ask him if he's having an affair and try to talk about it nicely because once you start screaming he won't answer you. Based on what you said above ide say he's cheating but you won't know unless he tells you. Also some guys lie about this and are good at it so when he's not home do some research on his computer maybe his phone when he's in the shower or something those would be places that he hides stuff. I mean maybe he's just sleepy and wants to be alone but you need to be sure. As you can see here based on what has happened to me in my past I don't trust men at all and know they love to cheat and hide things.

  • So he said no once and suddenly he's "depriving" you? Sometimes people are too tired to have sex, seriously. It happens.

    Talk to him about it, it'll make you feel better.

    • It's not just this time I want it four times a day but I'm lucky if it's four times a week

    • I don't think four times a week is anything to be concerned about (especially not cheating, like someone suggested), it just sounds like you two have very different libidos. Like I said, you should just talk with him about it.

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  • He's been home less than 24 hours and you can't f***ing pull your sh*t together? Let the man sleep!

    Go masturbate one more time and then wait until he is rested.

  • Reasons:

    He's either cheating on you.

    Too much work.

    Not interested in you anymore.

    Fix:

    Talk to him maybe about why he is not pleasing you

    Discuss an open relationship if you have to

    Cheat behind his back (if the opportunity comes, your desires will force you to)

    Participate in clubs, activities, or sports (temporary)

    Continue to masturbate until you find it boring (temporary)

    Spice things up and try wearing lingerie when he comes home

    Leave him

    Yep.

  • i think he got some I'm sure he would want some after 10 days

    • He was at a music hippie festival and he sais there were topless girls...but he has.never cheated ...

    • ok but I'm telling you from a guys perspective I want to have sex as much as possible so I think if he liked you he would want to f*** you anytime and he knew you ere so horny as a gd boyfriend he should have went down on you !

  • That's nothing. We guys sometimes have to go for weeks without because the girlfriend simply isn't in the mood. Don't accuse him. Tell him nicely. Some positive encouragement can go a long way.

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  • Get over it and masturbate or just wait till tomorrow. You have one more choice but you said you are no cheater. Not sure what kind of amazing answer you were looking for