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My boyfriend's big boobs past?

So my boyfriend has been with girls who have big boobs I am not a boob girl I'm a B cup but I do have a big ass. Is it possible for a guy to change his likes? I was asking him what he was into and he told me he use to go for girls who have bigger boobs and ass. But now he doesn't care. Does this mean his not attracted. To me ass much? Or he really exchanged his likes? He confuses me. He says in sex I make him want to come fast and that when he was with his Ex's sex was boring. Is he lying? Or just being nice to not hurt me?
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Thank you guys for your answers they are all great answers and knocked some senses into my head :) .
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  • Lots of good answers here.

    Everyone has preferences for what they like in the opposite gender's body, but, except for the very shallowest of us, we fall in love with a person's PERSONALITY, not their body, and once we have those feelings, it becomes MUCH less important that their body maches our preferences.

    As "Juicy" stated, a preference is different from a standard (which is another way of saying "requirement"). He may have a "standard" that he won't date a girl younger than 18, or over 300 pounds, or over 40, or whatever. A standard is something that, if violated, is a deal-breaker. Obviously, he could see before you got together that you weren't a DD-cup, and yet he's still with you, so breast size is not a "standard' for him, but just a preference. And, heck, maybe not even a preference; it may have just been a coincidence.

    At the end of the day, the ONLY thing that is important is that he CHOSE *you*. It's not like every D-cup girl just disppeared off the Earth, and he had to pick from what was left. He chose you over other girls with bigger boobs, so obviously you and your personality mean more than boob size to him. So, relax and quit worrying about this.

    Also, I should mention, for the billionth time, that guys LIKE *variation.* We don't want every girl that we date to be idential to the last one. Exploring all the difference between one girl and another is part of what makes sex and relationships fun and interesting.

  • You know what, I see this so often so I'm going to put this bluntly.

    He is with you. This means doesn't matter if you have big t*ts or a big ass. He likes you for you.

    If the whole t*ts and ass thing bothered him that much then he wouldn't be with you.

    But he is.

    Don't worry, about a thing, cause every little thing, is gonna be alright. <3

    • I love this answer :)

    • Thank you. :]

    • Completely agreed. Best answer?

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  • A preference is different from a standard. If you normally prefer blue eyes but he has brown eyes, should he freak out? If you normally prefer brunettes but he is a ginger, should he freak out?

    Ok, so he prefers bigger boobs. point is, he likes boobs period. Big, small or medium, he likes boobs and he likes you. Some guys go through phases of liking specific body parts(being an ass man or boob man) and they grow out of it and life goes on.

    • Very good answer.

    • Uhh, another "Best Answer"?

  • He is already withyou isn't he? aka he is attracted to you.

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  • OK, you say that his previous relationships were all with women who had big breasts, right?

    Then why is he in a relationship with you right now, rather than one of his exes?

    There has to be something about you that makes you physically and mentally "unique" and "beautiful", and none of the exes seem to have had that quality. Or else, why would he be with you in the first place?

    So, I wouldn't worry about the big breasts thing. Obviously you are beautiful in some other way that he cares much more about, even though he may not express what it is, or may not even "know" what it is.

    I hope this makes you get over that breast size issue. =)

    P.S. I think he is not lying about the sex. You have to be superior to the exes in at least some aspects. Again, why would he be dating you otherwise?

  • a nice ass can make up for small t*ts, also if he's going out with you, he probibly doesn't care if you have small t*ts.

  • If a woman has been with a man with a big penis ( but not too big ) in the past, is it possible for a woman to change her preferences to a small penis?

    If a guy asked such a woman if size mattered, would she tell him the truth or lie so she didn't hurt his feelings?

    • Yeah, women don't like equality unless it's in favor of them :(

  • I think you should be more flattered than anything. Because he likes you for you. Not your boobs.

  • Just because I like steak doesn't mean I won't eat lobster. At the end of the day guys like everything. When you're naked in front of him it doesn't matter what he was because right now what you are is what he's into.

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