My boyfriend's brother walked in the bathroom while I was naked?

[Anonymous]

Well yesterday I went to the beach with my bf.When I got to his house he told me if I wanted to take a shower,I said yes and when I was taking a shower when his bro walked in not making a sound and I guess he was just seating in the toilet till I came out.He saw me completely naked.And that's not the worst part he tried to touch me.He also keeps telling me "damn your fine" , "I want to get that body" and many other inappropriate things.

[gryndor]

How old is the brother? Jeez, hopefully you've already made it crystal clear to the brother that his actions are unwanted and inappropriate. Tell your boyfriend that his brother is acting like a creepy rapist and to have him correct his brother's behavior (not with violence or anything though). Meanwhile, lock bathroom doors and protect yourself. Don't walk into situations where this creep can take it to the next level. If he does, do NOT hesitate to call the police, bf's brother or not. This behavior is never appreciated and the sooner he gets the memo the better.

P.S. I used to work for a rape crisis counseling hot line, and while this isn't rape (and may never have intended to be) this is violating. if for no other reason than you're on here upset about it. Don't allow this jerk to hurt you. this incident was your warning.

[Asker]

His brother is 17 and yes I've made it super clear I don't want anything with him.... i did lock the door I have no idea how he got in ... thanxz for the advice it really helps

[cuteflirtygirl]

I'd freak out if that happened to me and would have gone right home. I'd demand an explanation about his brother and if anything like that . or similiar has every happened before. I'd also be very curious what your boyfriend has said or how he's handled this since then. Aren't you? You didn't say anything about that in here. Did he like laugh or get serious about it. Below you agreed in a comment that this happened about a week ago so hasn't anyone talked about this or done anything yet? When that was happening you should have just put a towel around you and went screaming out the door to where your boyfriend was. That would have exposed the sex maniac.

[Asker]

I told my boyfriend yes. ..he got super made and asked y I haded said anything sooner.... he wnt up 2 his brother and asked for an explanation ..i have no idea what his bro said but all I know is they got in a fist fight....he told me is no tgonna talk to him no more...which suks because there brothers..... and he doesn't what me to go to his house wen his bro there .....

[cuteflirtygirl]

Glad you at least told your b/f. Too bad it ended in a fight but what other choice was there really. These parents need to deal with this son of thers's because this is probably just the start of that kind of behavior that he'll be doing.

[karenk]

Hmm its funny I seem to remember reading this exact question about a week ago and the odd thing is it was worded pretty much the same and the same incident at the beach. really odd. So I'm just gonna assume that your the same person that asked it before so umm ya I really don't know why you would ask the same question again and say yesterday when it really happened like a week ago unless it like umm I don't know really didn't happen.? hmm ya.

[Asker]

Its the same perso but they took my other one off ...i forgot to take that part off because I just took a middle part off

[gryndor]

Well, it's still a serious situation. Maybe she's looking for more feedback and just cut and pasted the first entry. It's not a stupid question or anything like that, so let it go. Be supportive, we want as few victimized women as possible.

[karenk]

Haha sorry lol I know I know I was just wondering because it bothers me when people like randomly like ask ? lol haha but ya I'm sorry I didn't mean to be mean I hat being mean I'm sorry =[ gosh I feel horrible now.

[karenk]

K well I seriously think you should tell your boyfriend like as soon as possible so it won't continue and he could maybe then talk to his brother and get it to stop before he does something like rape you. Ya sounds kinda extreme maybe but really better safe then sorry. Hmm or you could probably get like a restraining order but then it might be hard to see your boyfriend lol. Ya once again I'm sorry.

[Asker]

Dont worry about it ..u were just curious

[ilovelegs]

Well she never really did ask for help like as a question. She was more just talking about an incident that happened to her at her b/f's house between his brother and her in the bathroom. When shit like that happens I don't know why they didn't talk to his brother like right then if they were so concerned. His brother is a weirdo and that needs to be addressed right away. If not, she's gonna be totally uncomfortable around either of them from now on. I would refuse to be anywhere he's at.

[Captain-Sarah]

Have you told your man? He will probably kick his brothers ass. You shouldn't let him get away with even trying to touch you. If you don't say anything he may thing he can get away with treating you that way and it could get worse. If I were you I wouldn't give a shit about the relationship between brothers. I'm sure your boyfriend would want to know and you should tell him sooner than later.

[wally]

you need to be more careful next time and tell you're boyfriend about his brother he should talk to him or teach him a lesson , if he didn't do anything to his brother my advice just dump him ,

if a guy don't stand up to his girl even if its his brother he don't deserve to be with.

[duffman]

You have to tell the voyeur brother to leave you alone and get out, shut up etc. and you have to tell your boyfriend what his brother is doing.

[VolleyBallBaby0xx]

Tell him to stop, and then slap him right across that smug little face of his for me :] lol

andd also I would tell your boyfriend what happened.

[John-Bee]

LOCK the door & tell your bf.

[4u2nv]

Tell your boyfriend! He'll deal with it.

[thebeegees]

what an asshole.

tell your boyfriend, this is a family matter.

[adat1408]

That's creepy. Tell your boyfriend what's going on, and stay away from his brother.

[pinkblink]

definitely tell your boyfriend you don't want any misunderstandings!

[pervertedjester]

Whats the question mark for then?

[azbaeu]

Is that a question?

[lovesummerA7]

You’re queer as a $3.00 bill so why should it matter? Little fruitcake meets bigger fruitcake - right?

[Savoy555]

Yes I think the longer this guy walks around thinking he got away with it, the bolder he becomes. He probably thinks the reason you haven't said any thing, is because you like it. That's how this douche bag thinks. The time has passed now but you should have made a huge sene the moment it happened.

[Anonymous]

I know this is probably horrible advice but I'd give the guy a shiner right then and there because if the door was locked and he could hear the shower running and you were the only one in the not there it doesn't take a genius to figure out who's in the bathroom doing what meaning he most likely knew it was you in there and was just being pervy. giving him a shiner would have physically hurt him and probably would damage his obviously low-pride too... win-win

[Anonymous]

oh myy, I would be madd if he did that. I hope you told your boyfriend about that.