Most importantly, talk to your boyfriend about this. It's nothing to be ashamed of (for either of you). You'll only come to a satisfactory solution by working on this together.
First, do you have any difficulty getting aroused when you're about to have sex? If your vagina is dry and not well lubricated, intercourse is going to be painful regardless of your boyfriend's size. On the other hand, if you take your time with lots of foreplay, start intromission slowly and gradually and possibly use some lubricant in addition to what you produce naturally, you may find that you're able to have sex comfortably.
Even with plenty of lubrication and an opportunity for your body to become maximally aroused, your boyfriend may simply be so large (compared to you), that intromission just isn't going to be comfortable. If that's the case (and assuming you want to maintain some kind of a sexual relationship), you'll need to explore other options. Vaginal sex with your boyfriend only penetrating you part of the way, coupled with oral sex and your use of hands and/or breasts, ought to offer you an enjoyable and varied sex life. Though this may sound especially unlikely, anal sex is another option. There are female p*rn stars (I don't know how widespread this is) who have a difficult time with the unusually large "equipment" common to their line of work--according to them, their preferred solution is anal, rather than vaginal, sex. I can't speak from personal experience, but apparently with practice they can accommodate a significantly larger object anally than they can vaginally.
I expect that you can find plenty of more explicit advice about using your hands, mouth, breasts, ass...the list can go on!...elsewhere. I'm not sure just how detailed we're allowed to get here, and certainly don't want to offend or shock.
I suspect that the most important thing, however, is to be open with your partner, get him to help, and try not to be anxious about things. For most young couples, sex is an important part of their relationship. It's a fine thing! But it's a wonderfully complex and varied activity; take your time and enjoy figuring out what works for both of you.
All the best...
Thanks;) I don't have any difficulty getting arused, I would say I'm very aroused and even dripping wet- so this isn't a problem definitely. Maybe it will stretch with time - I mean I would become bigger with time ? yes we can do anal, but definitely not always , so I would like to find way to have vaginal sex with him without pain:(
Normally, even a overly endowed guy should not hurt you: the vagina is stretchable up to the size of a child's head (not every girl wants to go through childbirth every time she makes love, of course!)
-If you feel he's too long, it's a sign he's brutal or clumsy : any guy can hurt a girl that way.
(grip the base of his p*nis to stop him touching your cervix)
-if you feel his girth is too much for you, it might be vaginism.( you write "sex hurts me always , it's just painful for me. " )
Read: link and link and link (eventually google that word to get more results.)
Using lube might help but NOT in case of vaginism.
I am pretty sure her pain comes from him bashing against her cervix, as she is okay as long as he isn't all the way in. So they're going to have to find ways to prevent him from going all the way in and hurting her. Having her encircle his penis with her hand (making a "vagina extention") is one way. The other is just that he'll have to learn some discipline.
Indeed, it looks as if you're right in the bulls eye, MrOracle.
thanks ;) yeah it is OK as long as he doesn't put it all. It's nothing wrong with me because before I has sex with my ex boyfriend and it didn't hurt me.
Take it slow in the beginning and use lot's of lube, let him put in a little more each time. It's going to hurt some because your vagina is getting stretched. Depending on his size you'll eventually be able to accommodate all of him and it will feel great.
He should be willing to do whatever he can to make it not painful for you.
"willing to do whatever"? how is that helpful?
She is asking for advice/help. She knows that he would do whatever he can because he likes/loves her.
It's helpful because if he isn't she may realize she should dump him and find someone who is.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Are you all doing enough foreplay to get you naturally wet enough? Is he going slow at the start or just slamming right in? Depending on each of your size's, he might only be able to put some of it in.
You're just not that into him. If you were, you would enjoy the pain.
do you have any idea how lucky you are?
Do you really consider it being lucky? if sex hurts me.. and it should be pleasure..
yep I do consider it lucky, pain makes it even better imo
for me it isn't so unfortunately. If it's painful I can't enjoy it.
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