My boyfriend says I don't initiate sex enough but when I do he denies me....

My boyfriend recently told me that he feels that I don't want him anymore because I didn't initiate sex and what it really was is that I feel he didn't want to be with me because I'm currently 6 month pregnant, so when I do initiate sex he turns me down what's with that? He says He's always in the mood but he turns me down anyways and he thinks that I'm going to want to keep initiating if he keeps saying no, what should I do or think?
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  • This is very common. Girls that rarely initiate usually only do when he is involved doing something else. So, if you try and initiate sex when his favorite sports team is in the middle of a playoff game, that's bullsh*t. Just like him, pick a normal time. Don't make it a control thing. Just because he turned you down when you were prego and hormonal doesn't give you the right to be resentful.

    • When I try there's nothing else going on no sports teams or anything, I try either in the morning, or afternoon or about an hour or so before bed when we are just cuddeling on the couch or whatever, I'm not resentful that he turns me down "when I'm pregnant" becasue up until about 2 months ago we whre having sex daily and then he started getting more hours at work and it became every second or 3rd day then he got mad I don't try.

  • LOL it sounds like he wants you to keep pawning him for sex, so you keep inflating his ego, but he maybe doesn't want sex with you. Sounds hard, but that's the impression I am getting. Kind of a childish game in my opinion.

    Don't fall for it anymore. Next time you initiate and he declines you, tell him you're sick of this game, and no more. Tell him to put out or shut up.

    • I did tell him that when he does this it makes me feel like he playing a childish game and I won't play it but if I don't try he freaks and if I try he says no, so what should I just give up?

    • You'll probably hate me for saying this, but let him freak. He's controlling you with his passive-aggressive behavior. Remind him you made every attempt and he rebuffed you, so you aren't gonna try, he wants some he has to initiate.

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