My boyfriend says that he can't eat me out...

[hailieleann]

My boyfriend has attempted to eat me out many times. Never lasting for more than thirty seconds. Every time but once he either began to feel sick or would actually puke. He claims that there is nothing wrong with me, but that he just feels like there is a hair in the back of his throat. When we first got together he lied to me and said he was very experienced when it came to giving oral, but that he wanted to wait because he felt it was a very intimate. Which I agree that it is, but he never had a problem with me giving him head during this time. Is this normal? Or is he just being lazy(which is pretty normal of him, I have to force him into foreplay most of the time)?

[CuriousEddie]

Tell him to lay down on a bed, and you straddle him.. and tell him to lick... keep your hips up in the hair, so the tip of his tongue just reaches between your labia...

You'll be able to control it, and keeps yourself above him at first... hold onto the bed rail to help... once he gets into it, you can lower yourself to allow more contact and more pleasure...

How could any guy not love this?

[Levin]

Sounds like he'd rather be sucking another guy's cock. What could be better than giving your girlfriend pleasure?

[kiss_me_Kate]

That's what I say.

[assly]

best answer

[Cool4ever5]

exactly. A man that don't eat pussy, I question his sexuality seriously when you are into the opposite gender you would want to please the other any way you can

[Anonymous]

I don't know if it's normal, but I do know that it is a bummer. Seems to me that real men go down. I don't think that I could be attracted to a guy who didn't like doing that. It's a turn off in and of itself that he's too much of a dainty little baby to handle it. Tell him to man up! hehe

[DrownedInBananaMilk]

real men don't lick pussy. only submissive, weak men do this. it's humiliating.

[Opinion Owner]

Banana, how is it humiliating?

[DrownedInBananaMilk]

oral sex is a submissive act. real men aren't submissive. how can a girl respect a wimp who goes down on her? lol that sh*t is ridiculous and pathetic.

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever floats your boat. If your girl gets off on you not going down on her, then it sounds like a match made in heaven, for you and her. But, for me, I don't think that a guy who wants to do that is submissive or weak. It's never even entered my mind. You're just into total dominance. I get it.

[RedThread78]

I voted you back up to counter that bananamilk guy I agree with you

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks! :)

[Cool4ever5]

Drown is a very selfish man who does not understand Sex at all on both parts. Sex is so good why would you limit the whole experience to one person when both can enjoy it to the fullest? What an idiot smh

[ErikaResponding]

He's a wimp. Sorry. Unless you're just really bad down there he's being pretty damn selfish.

[kiss_me_Kate]

DUMP HIM!

[Rainbow_Dash]

Wow, isn't that a bit of a silly reason to break up with someone? O_O

[kiss_me_Kate]

No. It's a friggin deal breaker. He may aswell be gay. real men love women

[elliesaur]

@Rainbow Dash - well let's see,he isn't up for anything concerning her pleasure,but didn't have a problem with getting his part from her,and he lied about it too.Lying selfish boyfriend?No thanks =\ He can either grow a pair or take a hyke.

[kiss_me_Kate]

@ elliesaur amen.

[DrownedInBananaMilk]

real men don't lick pussy. only submissive, weak men do this. it's humiliating.

[kiss_me_Kate]

@ DrownedInBananaMilk Real men see pussy, hunt it down, pin it down, and eat it furiously like ravenous tigers. you on the other hand, are gay.

[Levin]

haha, this is too funny

[kiss_me_Kate]

obviously he likes his hand banana milk

[DrownedInBananaMilk]

lol it's OK you defend the wimps out there. I don't blame you. you are right, real men love women, but they also show them who's boss/dominate them. how can a girl respect a wimp who goes down on her? lol that sh*t is ridiculous and pathetic.

[kiss_me_Kate]

Actualy, most women feel incredibly submisive and self concious to have a horny carnivourous man that up close and personal with their most sensitive parts. you're clearly mixing this up with some BDSM facesitting garbage.

[DrownedInBananaMilk]

no, I'm not. oral sex is a submissive act. that's a fact. it's incredibly hot when a girl sucks **** (i'm attracted to submissive girls), but alpha males would never put themselves in a shameful situation. maybe you're too dominant. it seems to me your broad shoulders intimidate your boyfriend and that's why he licks your p**** like a meek slave.

[RedThread78]

damn I don't know how things are where you live but in the rest of the world we like to please women as much as they please us.

[helpingjessie]

drownedinbananamilk needs to go drown himself in some SEEman lol

[Cool4ever5]

Wow, Drown, you are clearly an odd man for saying that. Do you really believe that? Sex is about pleasing each other equally. Its almost like you are sayin that women are beneath men therefore should do it all and get less in returned. You are selfish and a major turn off. So glad there's only a small few of boys out there like you cause Real men eat and Real woman suck it. if you dont, get the hell out my life. Why would any woman settle for a boy like you who thinks backwards? Grow up

[willytheg]

That's tough for me to wrap my mind around since I love giving women head.

[Belgie]

I wouldn't call it normal.

You could test him, by shaving down there. If he still doesn't do it, and complains about "hair" in his throat ,then either it's all in his mind (and he should work on that) or he's lying to you about wanting to do it.

[0ddjob]

Is the hair thing a real possibility? If so, you could try shaving or waxing.

[Danikan]

Real men eat pussy

[KingMahseri]

damn all you haters , I feel for your boyfriend I hate going down and even the thought of it disgusts me !

[Cool4ever5]

well you are not a pleaser at all because that is a part of sex and if you expect it best believe ill get it too. keep it fair. If you really loved a womans body or that into women, you wouldn't hate it. that's sad. rare guy you are. Real Men eat it. Nuff said.

[KingMahseri]

yeah , I'm a "pussy"

[YMEREL]

i love going down on girls, it gets me turned on when they are turned on. come hangout with me for a day :)

[kiss_me_Kate]

For the whole day? There you go Haillielean, a new boyfriend after the gay one you need to dump.

[HotPepper302]

LOL! Nice.

[helpingjessie]

haha! that's awesome

[jefffinn]

lazy you need a man with a tongue that can go all night

i love to give full body massageswith my tongue

[Anonymous]

Most men would rather suck dick and lick assholes. It’s normal.

[Anonymous]

Not all guys like eating a girl out simple as that, maybe its just not his thing that doesn't make him any more or less of a man. Everyone is different and there are many different ways of satisfying and pleasing each others needs. That's just my opinion

[Anonymous]

Not normal

[Anonymous]

It could be the way you taste.there are drinks that guys and girls can take and it helps them taste better down there.the drinks are made especially for that

[Anonymous]

depends, if you have hair down there then maybe he is getting hair at the back of his throat. If you are bare then sounds like he is a douche!

[Cool4ever5]

yeah he just makin an excuse just to notdo it because he does not like it

[Anonymous]

maybe its just isn't his thing. I'm sure you don't gross him out, but maybe doing oral does. idk.