My boyfriend is sexually frustrated...what should I do? What do you guys expect?

Our relationship is good, but not really our sex life. When I ask him what he expects from me, he tells me all is want is to have sex with me...and doesn't answer me more than that. What do you guys expect? I want him fairly often, I make noises and try to please him.. WHAT am I missing here?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • I was in a similar situation with my fiancee. We have sex everyday, but a while ago, he said he wasn't completely satisfied. I didn't know what to make of it. But then, I remembered that when I look forward to sex, it's not the orgasm I'm after, but the closeness that we have when we get intimate. That feeling of being one for that one moment when nothing matters. I know sex it's physical, but it's just as much as it is emotional. Try some romantic foreplay. Something that makes you feel loved and attached before moving onto the actual act of sex.

    Also, experiment and play around with different things. Try some roleplaying, bondage, fetishes, toys, etc. Be creative.

    • I think he'll be into the romantic foreplay but not at all in your last ideas...i'll freak him out. He thinks that two people need toys when they get bored of each other... What do you mean exactly by romantic foreplay? Can you give me ideas please?

    • By romantic foreplay, I mean a lot of kissing, holding, cuddling, massage, and some tender genital stimulation. When my fiancee and I are into, we whisper a lot of sweet nothings to each other.

Most Helpful Guys

  • That sounds kind of strange...I don't see how he can be critical of you if he will not tell you what he wants...I mean I tell my wife what I want and she does it or lets me do it..end of story...sex is good...Does he have fetishes that he is afraid to tell you? Lots of males are scared to say what they really want...:S

    • I don't think so. He's more the opposite way with an idea of purity behind it. When I ask him "how" he wants it, he just tells me sex is easy and we shouldn't even talk about it but doing it...that there shouldn't be too much of a mental part in it. So it doesn't help me.

  • You don't have a relationship you have a sex together

    Have you ever been in a relationship before?

    • Yes... I don't understand your first sentence.

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  • Probably looking at a lot of p*rn. I expect that we ( My girlfriend and I) both enjoy. I feel more masculine and powerful, when she and I have orgasms.