My boyfriend started using real dirty talk lately. Normal?

[Anonymous]

Last night during sex (about the 6th time with my bf), he referred to my vagina as a p#@Sy and had me bend over so he could look at it from a mirror behind too (obviously he was doing some other things too). He also told me he had no idea I would be sucha good cocksucker. . . Normal or too much dirty talk? We still did it missionary first time last time too. .I have no idea how others behave in the bedroom but I'm curious.

[ekspain]

I generally like to whisper dirty things in my lovers ear, when we make love. But never in a disrespectful way. I usually would say, " I love your P&#$Sy," etc, sometimes in English, sometimes in Spanish. He may be trying to let you know that he wants to take that avenue. He's probably checking your response. If its weird, let him know.

I know it takes women time to really become comfortable in a sexual relationship. If you've only done it a few times, you may not be ready for this yet. When you've attained a real intimate connection, its a whole lot less weird to hear your lover tell you how much he needs your $%^%$#. in fact, it could be a turn on, combined with other love making techniques.

[ArtyC]

Some of us are talkers. Some of us are yellers. Some of us are silent. Talk is good; as long as it doesn't get creepy. What your guy was saying sound's normal. He love your p*u*s*s*y so it turns him on to express it. HE loves the way you give head; see it as a compliment. Better yet; do you like it? If it makes you uncomfortable; tell him. If you don't mind it; join him. Tell him how much you love his big c*o*c*k inside you. Tell him you love the way he eats your p*u*s*s*y. Enjoy

[gravygirl]

It's pretty normal and can be a lot of fun if you're into it. I like it when my Boyfriend calls me his little slut and orders me around a bit. It helps that we have a good relationship and I know how much he respects and loves me. If I wasn't secure about that stuff, the name-calling would probably be a little hard to handle.

If there's a particular word or phrase that bothers you, just let him know and unless he's a jerk he'll avoid it and come up with other things.

[Linds]

My guy does this sometimes and I talk dirty back to him. We've been together several months, though, and have had sex countless times. We're very comfortable with each other. His dirty talk simply gets me more turned on.

[Shlei3]

Perhaps he was more comfortable this time (since it's been a few times) so he wanted to try something different. My fiance likes to talk sometimes and other times he doesn't. It all depends on his mood.

[Fanny]

I think it's hot. Unless you are offended by it. I think anything consenting adults want to do together behind closed doors is fine as long as they both agree it is acceptable.

[liltabbixxo]

I think it is normal I mean he is a guy so what do you expect haha. If this bothers you then just express how you are feeling.