Compliment him and boost his ego then tell him. For instance be like "Oh you turn me on, try doing this or focus here." When he moves somewhere else tell him to go back and to stay there. It sounds like you probably will have to do this a couple of times til he gets the clue and changes his ways but he won't unless you talk to him. Sex is a big part in a relationship and so is communication. Great sex comes with great communication. You can't expect him to read your mind about what you like so you have to tell him. But boost his ego first, even if you have to lie a little (don't overdue it though and say that he's a sex god or the best ever, etc). But let him feel good about something he's doing before you tell him to do something a different way.
Just tell him. Once I was so turned off by a guy that I wasn't even wet. He tried turning on me, trying one thing after another, but nothing. Now THAT would ruin my ego if I was a guy. lol.
He's a sensitive guy.. Honestly, I don't know how too. I don't moan to lead him on to thinking it was great or anything. I communicate when we have sex.
Maybe you should sit down and have a conversation by asking him what you guys could do to spice up your sex life. If you can get him to critisize something that you do in order to make sex more pleasurable then maybe you can say "my turn" and tell him kindly that he has to listen to you more when being sexual.
i had a thing with a guy that didn't turn me on at allll. it was like a chore, lol. I wanted to be into it, but I just couldn't get turned on by him
Just tell him when he hits the spot, guide him to what feels good for you, and don't be afraid to help him get better. You won't hurt his feelings unless he's overly sensitive. Once he learns to get better at it, it'll be worth the constructive criticism.
Hurt his freaking ego.
When he does it right and you nearly rip his hair out and he has to pin you down because your hips are bucking, his ego will recover.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!i think it is just important to emphasive that he may not be doing anything wrong it just isn't working for you. Then tell him exactly what you want.. It is definitely easier to please some girls than others...
Brando is right on the money - be honest about where he could improve, but definitely let him know what he's doing right too, because that's important.
Point where to go. Maybe rub it to how much pressure to use.
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