My boyfriend takes forever to climax and has extremely intense orgasms?

So I just started sleeping with my new boyfriend and the first time we had sex he lasted like 2 hours. He seemed to be enjoying it the whole time but then told me he always takes forever. He probably looked at the clock 20 times and finally when he finished I thought he was dying because he got so intense. He also said that happens regularly and he can't control anything while its happening. He grabbed me extremely hard and every bit of him was ridiculously tense and he says he sees a really bright light while its happening. It sounds like he's having some kind of endorphin overload. Has anyone ever heard of or does anyone have a similar condition? After a few weeks I've realized that it has to be medical and I don't think its a psychological issue. Also there are certain things I can do that arouse him to almost a scary point. Like he can't turn it off no matter what after, and they're not even provocative. For instance when I kiss the side of his neck or even just snuggle in that general area. He says its just really sensitive but I mean the way he reacts isn't normal and its so extreme. He seriously seems to be trying really hard to fight it off. Even before we ever had sex it would be the same way.
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  • Sounds like a typical, horny guy in his sexual peak. All guys could max out their orgasms like that, but most of us suppress it so we look and sound more masculine to the girl. That's what I used to do, now I just flail like a fish out of water and scream like an ape when I orgasm.

    As for the 2 hours thing... are you sure he wasn't a virgin? Maybe he ejaculated a few times before having sex so he had crazy stamina. What he says may not always be the truth.

    • He's definitely not a virgin and it's really weird because he tries to suppress it all so hard but to no avail. Plus he seems really self-consciouss about it so I don't think he's lying about it. He's my best friend so I can read him like a book. If he were lying, I'd know. I sort of thought since he's liked me for the better part of a decade that maybe it was a nervous thing but its been several times now and he seems really comfortable around me.

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