My boyfriend takes forever to come?

The other day, I gave him head for a little over an hour before he blew his load! Is this normal? I mean he apprently enjoyed it but it definitely was starting to get uncomfortable for near the end and I'm wondering if maybe I wasn't very good and that's why it took him so long? I don't know. Any input is welcome!
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so today I tried giving him a blowjob again, and although I tried to change a few things to see if it would help, I feel like overall my technique was the same, only this time he was like going crazy moaning and came within 10 minutes... and now I'm confused because I really don't think I changed that much. Is it possible that last time it took so long because he was nervous? (That was the first time I'd given him a bj) I guess it doesn't matter why, I just want to know so I can replicate it
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I agree, some guys take along time to orgasm nearly always, no matter what.

    And some guys take a long time with a BJ, because it's different than sex, and they aren't as comfortable, or they just don't enjoy it as much as sex (many guys are the opposite, and enjoy BJs more than sex).

    And it could be that what you're doing isn't what he prefers, even if what you're doing is exactly perfect for another guy. Most guys will enjoy just about any technique, but some guys want or need something specific, and if that's him, he'll need to tell you what to do and how to do it.

    But chances are that you're doing fine, and that this is fairly normal for him.

    • Sure, it's very possible he was just nervous.

  • Yeah, it's normal. Some guys finish fast, some slow. People are different.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Some guys take a long time to reach like that. My boyfriend is like that. He goes and goes and my jaw starts hurting after a while. What we do is just have normal sex, then when he's close to climaxing, he'll bring it up to my mouth and I'll finish him off. Much better than working it for an hour!

  • Take it in a positive manner, maybe he's holding back because he's enjoying the way you're blowing him... I know guys that can hold their ejaculation just to enjoy the bj longer.

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  • You didn't provide enough friction or speed or visual or mental stimulation, or some combination. There's nothing wrong with him.

    • Some guys take really long to cum, even if the techniques good

    • If it takes longer than he takes by himself, the technique isn't good.

    • By myself I still take around a half hour at least