My boyfriend wants me to masturbate in front of him...?

Not a lot of things make me uncomfortable but this really does! What's the point of that?!? I'm thinking I'm just too shy to do that...any advice?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If you are too shy, then don't...

    But perhaps you are shy because it feels like you are putting on a show for him... perhaps you can do something similar, like if he is touching you, take his hand in yours and guide him, so that he fingers you exactly how you want it... or if you are having sex, reach down and rub your clit while he enters you.

    This way, it can be used to show him what you like, to give him a little bit of a show, and to give yourself more pleasure while not making you feel as awkward.

    Again, it all depends on what you are comfortable with...

  • It's one of the hottest things I have ever seen, and it helps me understand how I can touch her to get her off. It's a great way to spice up your love life.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I can see why it would make you uncomfortable...us girls are waaaay more private about this issue than guys are but they really do like it when we do that and it's kind of normal I'd say for him to want to see you do it. I thought it was weird at first too. He'll probably take care of himself while you take care of yourself so don't be surprised if you decide to do it that that happens. it's really not as awkward as it sounds as long as you're both in the moment. it almost needs to happen organically and not so much planned for you to be able to let go and enjoy it.

  • Just forget he's there, close your eyes and do what pleasures you. A lot of guys get turned on watching their girl pleasuring themselves so you could go from masturbating straight into sex, no hand jobs or blow jobs in between haha

    • Hmmmm yes. Good answer.

    • I thought so too haha

  • hey I just asked about this last night! you should check out the responses people gave they were really insightful. go take a look if you want

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  • We get excited mostly through visual stimulation. Seeing that is incredibly sexy. And you can show him what works for you.

  • yeah that's a bit awkward. and if you're not comfortable with that, then you're not comfortable. let him know. it's not a big deal. a lot of girls are