My boyfriend wants me to start waxing instead of shaving?

[Anonymous]

He even offered to pay for it all... how do I tell him this isn't an option for me? I absolutely refuse to wax...

[James1986]

If we are talkimg about your pubic hair, don't do it. Don't give in! If your boyfriend was right in the head and not so influenced by porn, he wouldn't be requesting that you shave or wax because he would be attracted to you the way nature intended. Pubic hair is beautiful on a woman because it sends a signal to a male that you are sexually mature and its a tease too because it sort of hides your most special area. Pubic hair is there for a reason. Nature didn't get it wrong, we twisted things rather with all this porn inspired, new age fashion over the last 25 years. I would take a woman with a full bush 10,000 times to one. I think it is sexy and natural.

[poppy1530]

it's your pubic region and sex life. he may be asking this so that it feels better in bed or he hates the appearance of a shaved pubic region. at least I think u are talking about the pubic region. waxing can apply to any other part of the body that grows hair.

[Anonymous]

its your body.
tell him to fuck off and be aware of his own body.
say that he better saves that money for his new brain implant, he apparently needs one.
id totally offer mine to pack his stuff the second he told me that. wtf.

[Anonymous]

I have been having a Hollywood total wax since just before I was 18. It is sure painfull, but it is worth it. My mum is the same, and has been for a lot longer. It IS your choice, though. Do whatever you are happy with.

[ElissaDido]

Waxing is better than shaving. Laser is better than both, but he can't force you to do it if you don't want to do it.
However if it were me I would've done it because I want to do my best to attract my partner.

[MargaritaPeach]

Tell him that you will wax when he does, too. Shuts them up every time. Haven't found one yet that is willing to wax his 'man-parts' .

[Theleftguy]

just be straight up and tell him u don't wanna do it.

[Drooogie4]

Tell him no?

[madhatters4]

just tell him that you don't like it. honestly it's as simple as that

[Asker]

He's so insistent. I know this seems like a dumb question... lol. Sorry.

[madhatters4]

no need to apologize. just explain why you don't want to and ask him to respect your feelings

[summiter]

Just tell him what pat rt of no don't you get! Do you shave right now? Does he?

[CheerGirl38139]

does he realize that some hair has to grow back for the wax to have something to pull on?

[Smmyskittles]

^^^ This

[SaltAndLime]

Say, " no way, this is absolutely not an option for me"
Or buy a home wax kit and tell him you'll do it if he waxed you... see how bad he wants it?

[Pearl85]

Why do you refuse? Depends on your reasons as to how you tell him

[Sjeggy]

"I do not want to wax"
"I won't wax because I don't want to do it"
Pick any choice of words ;)
It's your choice!

[Asker]

I know the questions seems dumb, sorry.

[Sjeggy]

Don't be You are scared of telling him Insecure even You want to tell him your own decision without hurting his feelings. Thing is, a relationship is an equal amount of respect an love If he loves you it doesn't matter that you don't want to wax ;) it's your body, he may suggest, but nothing more

[JohnDoeJr]

It's really up to you. I would also take into account how he brought it up. Was it a request? or was he expecting you do what he said?

[Theodorable]

Tell your boyfriend it's his car, and he should wax it himself.

[akadatank44]

Tell him to fuck off and that he should be happy that you even shave. Its your body you do what you want. Honestly prefer just trimmed myself.

[heavenlyhannah]

If he would pay I would be all for it tbh

[BaileyisDarcy]

Pull a hair off your vulva and consider the pain x a hundred. Thats waxing.

[heavenlyhannah]

@BaileyisDarcy I know, have had it done, have you? Not as bad as you may think, pretty quick.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Tell him that it is your body and if he loves you, cares about you and respects you then he will have to accept the fact you will shave but not wax.

[CheyenneBae]

Just do it.

[oximeter]

do it if its not such a big deal.

or communicate that you really really hate to.

independence/individualism can absolutely kill a relatiosnhip as dependency and comprimise are keys to making it work.

[AlwaysBelieving]

It's your body. If I remember correctly, waxing actually damages the nerve endings the hair was attached to.

[Jan1ssary_]

Dump him.

[lumberman9]

Tell him you won't get it done, whether he pays or not

[brewersfan01]

you stand up for yourself and say uh no. shaving is good enough.

[beefcake2000]

Tell him straight up this isn't an issue for discussion

[dragonflyroses]

I would be completely honest with him.

[Anonymous]

Why? Pain?

[Anonymous]

Explain to him its not you thats all you have to say

[Anonymous]

Use that no no device. It won't hurt and you won't have to do much upkeep.

[Anonymous]

why do women whine so fucking much about every little thing>? if itll make him happy, just do it!!! its not like he's asking you to get a makeover.. geezzzzzz!!!

[Smmyskittles]

Go wax your genitals and then come back and say this. It. Is. Painful.

[CheerGirl38139]

@Smmyskittles <<< this

[Opinion Owner]

@Smmyskittles if my girlfriend asked me to, i would. im currently single though so it doesn't make a difference

[Opinion Owner]

@CheerGirl38139 same response for you. if i had a girlfriend who wanted me to wax, i would. id even wax my ass if she wanted me to. idc. its not a big deal AT ALLLL

[Smmyskittles]

Op Owner - I don't believe you what-so-ever, to be 100% honest. Ever seen "40 year old virgin"? See how he cries like a girl about chest hair? Now, imagine that on a much more sensitive part of your body.

[Opinion Owner]

@Smmyskittles well im not going to sit here trying to convince you that i would.. my mentality is that id rather put effort into serious parts of a relationship and worry about the important issues. im not going to spend time bickering with my partner about hair on my genitals. if she wants me waxed, ill go wax..

[CheerGirl38139]

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[BaileyisDarcy]

How the fuck is not wanting to go through the pain of having hair LITERALLY RIPPED from the most SENSITIVE part of your body unreasonable? Yes she should just be able to say no without asking strangers how, but that gives you no right to tell her SHE has no right to not want to do something her boyfriend asked her to do.

[Anonymous]

just tell him. it's your body

[thissiteisforpervs]

that's not how Conservative Christians and republicans see it

[Anonymous]

It's worth the sacrifice. Why so whiny

[MysteriousDarkness]

It is her body if she does not want to wax why should she

[Opinion Owner]

@MysteriousDarkness Because a relationship is give and take. She doesn't have to like it but to try wouldn't hurt. She should want to please her man and he should want to please her too. Compromise. Try it before she pulls a hissy fit

[BaileyisDarcy]

Actually to try would hurt a fuck ton. Think again.

[Asker]

@MysteriousDarkness I've done it before. Refuse to do it again.

[Opinion Owner]

It's get easier by time and it doesn't really hurt much anymore. Plus you can sugar wax which is quite amazing, the girls say. And your boyfriend will love it. So it's not the end of the world really. But if you are like that against it. Then ok it's fine too

[Anonymous]

Why would he want you too?