My boyfriend wants me to tie him up?

what should I do to him when I've got him there? I'm normally not very dominant at all, so I'm a bit lost.
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he wants me to torture him a little bit too, but I can't draw blood, burn him or use a closed fist.
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  • If he wants you to be rough, I'd have a serious discussion about what and where. What type of pain, where on his body?

    I find having my penis slapped hot, and might find a _light_ slap to the face hot, but leave my testicles alone! so talk it through first. May also want safe words - not just for him, but for you. something that says 'slow down', something that says 'stop'. Even if HE is not worried, YOU want to know he's enjoying it.

    Beyond the rough side, use him. Ride his face, get as much of your lube all over his face as possible, ride him however feels good to you, don't let him come easily, whatever.

  • Do whatever you wish. You don't have to be mean or say anything special.

    Explore his body.

    Touch his **** if you want, but don't let him climax.

    Rub yourself along his body.

    Maybe sit next to him or on him and masturbate. Let him lick your fingers.

    Call a girlfriend while sitting in him and ignoring him.

    If he's hard and dripping, make him beg you to touch him and let him come. Make him taste his precum from your fingertip.

    These are just some ideas... but all very gentle, and just have to do with the fact that he is tied and you are not.

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  • Great time to tease and tease and tease! So many things you can do to him from tickling his testicles to sitting on his face or riding him just as you like

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  • So he likes to enjoy sex in a different style. If you are willing to please him, give it a try. You don't need to be dominant or abusive to do this. Just tie him up and make him aroused but don't let him do anything to you. suck his penis, rub his penis, give a little bite. If you are not shy then give him a lap dance, press your boobs, masturbate in front of him, dildo yourself, talk dirty make him crazy wanting you, but continue to tease him. Till he begs to f*** you wild.

    Go ahead girl - take the sex to the next level

  • Oh Yeah...you the one who was "bored with her sex life". Well tying someone up is easy enough...I am too claustrophobic for that nowadays...has he told you what he wants you to do to him? I am up for some domination but guys all like different stuff...just look at any femdom...and you know what like from your other Question...that and maybe some facesitting...look at a couple of femdom sites and ask him what he prefers..(:(:(:

    • he says I have to do whatever I want and surprise him...I have no idea, he wants to be tortured.

    • google "femdom" and "domina" and try not to be shocked...lol...(:(:(:

  • Start with rubbing his cock, maybe suck him a little, then sit on his face. Tease him for a while with all of these things before finally riding him until he cums. You can also blindfold him during all of this to make it less predictable.

  • Tie him up. Give him a blow job. After he cums, wipe his cock and start riding. Make him cum again and and again.

  • tie his hands and tease his **** give him a blowjob

    or ride him cowgirl

    use cuffs, a feather or a strapon?

    and you can blindfold him

  • Ride him, ride his face, kiss and touch up and down his body since he'll feel vulnerable, whatever else. Just do what you want to do.