Don't forget about him and leave him handcuffed to the bed while you go off to work or to sleep.
Do take the oppurtunity to play out the aggressive and dominating role. I think you should not be too rough with him, but try to enter his mind and this how you would like it in his situation.
Don't be over masculine in your approach, be powerful but not too aggresive or assertive, use female techniques as the basis for your aggressive and controlling approach.
Maybe try making him feel humilated and weak. But don't insult his physical appearance unless he asks.
Don't use too much violence use a little but don't do anything to will cause long term damage.
Maybe make him naked and you clothed to begin with. I there is some advantage in this approach.
This is from asking an older male friend for advice, I don't really know if it is correct but I hope it helps.
@Don't be over masculine in your approach, be powerful but not too aggresive or assertive, use female techniques as the basis for your aggressive and controlling approach. ______what does that even mean ?
I was trying to paraphase what my friend said, I am not even that sure what it means. I will try to work it out for you.
I think I am too young to understand. :P Sorry, I really can't help. I am sorry I gave you useless information.
im going to do that--if/ when I get into relationship. definitely going to do that. the guy I like, moves around too much&when he touches me, its distracting --i can focus on what I want to do. but maybe ripped shirts. hand cuffs might hurt after a while. if he gets aroused& is pulling on them. itll cut into his wrists. id use something sifter I think.
he wants to use those fuzzy handcuffs and he already has them
oh yea then no problem. I wouldn't do it to be rough. just to have forced patiene from him;)
I used fuzzy but they still cut into my guys wrists but he didn't tell me until afterward, it looked painful but he said it was worth it
I handcuffed my guys arms behind the chair while he was sitting upright. He loved that and allowed for a lot of teasing, oral and riding with me in control. I say go for it!
i had that done to me at a hotel with the drapes partially open and two young couples were watchin me squirm :)
Go for it. Why not give it a try? You might like it.
If you don't like it, don't do it again.
To your comment: anything that would make him feel out of control. Like teasing him. Blindfolding. You can get more ideas by joining websites that are more dedicated to that like FetLife.
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you should blindfold him too babe
oh my God. niiice. I would love to have the chance to do that to my boyfriend. Go for it. Start off a little bit more gentlier than get rougher. you don't want to go too far. have fun ;)
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