First make sure that he understands things correctly. He may sit there believeing that you were telling him that you wanted to bring in another person for a threesome relationship. You have to explain to him that this I biology, that you are of the minority who are capable of falling in love with both genders, but that he is your mate now - that doesn't change. You love him.
If he is a jealous type, it will be difficult for him though. Now he can't even relax when you're out with the girls but will sit there stewing with his green eyed monster.
If he is intellectually true to his religion, the chances are that his faith doesn't really disapprove of homosexual urges. Only homosexual actions. None of the major christian religions will tell you that you are a lost cause because of your biology. What most of them do hold with is that even if you CAN fall in love with one of the same gender, you should resist it. In your case that is no problem - you have your guy. Bi-sexualism doesn't exclude monogamism.
However if he is of the mind that your biology disqualifies you from being a real human being and condemned to hell in eternity, then he really ought to read up on this Jesus character and what he said about redemption and salvation. Of course, if he isn't christian I am more uncertain about it. But anyway, as long as God created you the way you are, does he really think that you are excempt from Gods grace? The whole point is to resist "temptation" and "walk the narrow road" - wich you are, even in his narrow definition.
If this ends the relationship, then it's for the best. If that's truly who you are, then you need a partner who is supportive of your wishes.
If he can't be supportive, that means it will be an issue. And while he may seem perfect in all other ways, it's the one thing that will ruin the rest of it.
but I don't have any wishes, I won't act on it, I just wanted him to know true, it would not affect our relationship that I'm bi
Which was the right thing to do, but he's telling you it's a problem that you did. You made the right call, because it's better this be problem now then 10 years later, after marriage.
but why ? why is this problem? because I can't understand.
You are who you are, and nobody deserves to change that about you.
It's important for people to be respectful of one another's identity in a relationship, and if he cannot see past whatever he has been led to think about bisexual people for the sake of loving you, then he doesn't deserve all the kindness and thoughtfulness you offer him.
You made the decision to tell him in good faith. Where things go is now in his hands. If he cannot rise to the occasion, understand that you are no less of the person he thought you were before you told him, and learn from this, then there really is nothing more you can do and nothing more that you should feel you need to.
WaitingAtTheDoor is right. I really wish you all the best in this, and I truly hope that he will be able to see past all the crap people say when they think being anything but straight is wrong so that he can continue to see what a wonderful person you are exactly as you are and cherish you that way.
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