My boyfriend wants to take naked pictures of me? Should I let him?

[Anonymous]

yea that's pretty much the story. he's a nice and all and he like never asks anything of me so should I let him or not?

[Anonymous]

My spouse to be is a photographer, he even went to school for photography and he loves to take fine erotic photographs of me or himself. I love the fact that when he photographs me, he admires me for a long time. You can tell is more than just "Damn, I want to jack-off later on to these" it is also a hint of great appreciation and love. A man that truly loves you will not share these pictures with anyone else, and a man that is honest and trustworthy will also give you pictures of himself. That way (If anything ever happens!) you could just post his pictures as well. However, you both need to really be mature to do this type of stuff because, that way, you can both trust that nothing is going to be revealed. I think is a good idea, though. It builds your self steem and brings you closer. Not to mention, I have so many imperfections like stretch marks, and he does not mind, infact, he brings them out on the photos. He likes a real woman and her flaws.

[Anonymous]

absolutely not. you may be able to trust him. but you can't trust his friends or family. what happens if he leaves the picture somewhere? or someone gets his computer? or he looses the camera/phone it's on? if you want the entire world to see you naked then go for it but other than that you can NEVER be sure that he will be the only person that sees it.

[Enideqa]

I've done this before, I liked it, the pictures were for my husband, I do it with the chance of anything, so if they get out, then they do my mistake I guess, but the experience was good for me.

[Enzo_]

I have to look at this from 2 different view points. If I asked my girlfriend I would want her to say yes because it is sexy and a guy will jack off to the pictures. But from the other point of view I would say no cause all it takes is one fight and bam your sexy photo backfires. Basically I would say that the risks outweigh the benefits its better to have piece of mind than to always wonder what people have seen me naked. ( I have also seen some of the "private photos" from people who get their phones stolen and texted to everyone in their contacts).

[Italo_DiscoFever]

it's up to you. When you guys break up. he can either post it on the web or send them to everybody.

Good Luck.

- Harvey D

[peace-love-couture]

No.You can never trust someone with nude photos of yourself.Some guys will promise and swear to never show them to anyone else or leak them,but just google and you'll find out how millions of girls learned the hard way

[twiaddict333]

no way because if you break up..he will have those FOREVER!

[farmhand99]

well I think unless your married and over 18 its a bad idea

[iformshadears]

LOL. yes you should.

Bye the way, can I have his email address, I need to ask him something?

[Asker]

Hmmm and is you don't mind me asking what exactly do you want to ask him?

[iformshadears]

Oh nothing you would be interested in... I can promise you though, it has NOTHING to do with any naked pictures.

[Asker]

Ok then but I'm not exactly sure how he'd feel about giving out his email address to a random person so ill hav to ask him beforehand.

[Enideqa]

Lol

[iformshadears]

LMAO. I was joking!!!

[geanuine]

Here is the real question...Is this girl really this naive or is she playing cause she seem a little bit of a tard to be asking any of these question. Let me lay it out nice and simple without using big word so you can understand. It would be stupid for you to do this cause it will get out at some point. That is what most people are trying to tell you. Including iformshadears.

[iformshadears]

Geanuine- I still don't think she is going to get it lol

[geanuine]

I am gonna have to agree with you on that. :D

[MTR123]

I think you should. But you have to make sure like he won't show anyone or anything. I've done it a few times & nothing bad has happened. So sure, let him have his fun.

[deerylime94]

That's never a good idea.

When the break up comes...chances are some people are going to be seeing that picture. Who knows how many people.

That's just my opinion though.

[Anonymous]

yes it is OK unless you have trust issues