My boyfriend won't have sex with me because I'm a virgin

What do I do? I want to have sex with him. I let him finger me because I hope it will lead to sex but what to do?
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Because girls bleed the first time and it hurts when you have sex, and also. a lot of guys think it's wrong to have sex with a virgin, unless they want to marry her. But they think it's okay to sleep with girls that are experienced and have been around
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well that's just stupid (him I mean). Like istavia2 asked is he a virgin? To have some sort of moral code like I won't have premarital sex with a virgin unless we get married, but I can boink any other girl that's had it is just rediculous.

    If you want to have sex, just for sex and he doesn't want to do it, then find another boyfriend. It constantly amazes me how guys (and girls) will set these bizarre rules of conduct and people just go along with it.

    If you love him and you want him to be the only one (even if that changes) then he should be willing to man up and do it (that even sounds stupid), because he cares for you.

  • Speak up. Tell him your horny and you want to have sex. If he isn't prepared to have it with you, you will find a guy who is horny. The key is tell him what you want.

Most Helpful Girls

  • you could play mind tricks with your boyfriend and tell him that your going out tonight and will come back not a virgin, and see if he'll want to have sex with you then

    or you could just talk to him and tell him that your purity should be appealing because then he knows that you haven't been sleeping around so you must truly care about him

  • The blood is not all that bad especially if you use tampons. Is he a virgin?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • why won't he have sex with you? what's his reason?

  • wtf is wrong with him? Is he on crack or some shit? Why are you begging him? If he doesn't want to lay you than you should find yourself someone who would.

  • sounds weird to me.if you want it, you shouldn't have to beg that much.